Crying

Nefeli · 12.28.2012, 11:51 AM

wow.
making a thread for this.
wow.
sarcasm.

so i have great difficulty in crying. i mean, really crying, not for few seconds.
i have done it..but really really few times in my life.
now, i was thinking - maybe 1st time i have such a clear thought about it- that i could use a nice, long crying.
hasnt happen!
even put on massage the history and nothing has happened yet.

what about you?

Nefeli · 12.28.2012, 11:52 AM

also, yo! thanks, but this isnt a thread about helping me to cry now. ok?
fak it i even smile right now.

!@#$%! · 12.28.2012, 11:55 AM

a good cry is all a matter of histrionics

e.g.-- look at this actor:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ls2lC7DQFMI

Trama · 12.28.2012, 12:11 PM

Murmer99 · 12.28.2012, 01:30 PM

literally happens at least once a month for me inb4emo

floatingslowly · 12.28.2012, 01:38 PM

The last time I can remember was while watching The Ballad of Genesis and Lady Jaye.

It's not like Jaye's death was news, but I felt so very bad for him.....still do.

I might cry RIGHT NOW.

come on merman69, let's go get some tissues...

SuchFriendsAreDangerous · 12.28.2012, 01:56 PM

What, watching CSPAN footage from the House not doing it for ya?

Read this then..

By the way, I did indeed recently have a singular inner-Apocalyptic meltdown and succumbed to falling to the floor in a cascade of gut-wrenching tears.. but like Bytor I got a lot on my plate lately, and in truth, it was like three fucking years over-do from not properly grieving the last time I faced the jaws of Hell.. Sometimes its cleansing, others its just boring. I prefer the Stoic approach involving inward psychological masochism and other forms of spiritual nihilism [e.g prying open my third eye.. ], the end result, what the Fathers call Apatheia (a state of existence completely voided of passions, not to be confused with apathy which is a complete lack of concern)

dale_gribble · 12.28.2012, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SuchFriendsAreDangerous

a state of existence completely voided of passions

pretty much sums it up for me, you explained it very well sir. maybe once every couple of years i cry.

ALIEN ANAL · 12.28.2012, 03:28 PM

I dont cry either. I find i get a head ache before i am about to and it puts me off.

I havent cried in years. I do wake up at night sobbing.

the ikara cult · 12.28.2012, 03:36 PM

I have to be absolutely fecking heartbroken + absolutely fecking hammered to REALLY cry. But once thats over I dont remember it ever making me feel better.

stu666 · 12.28.2012, 04:03 PM

I cried tonight. I just got back from seeing my grandad who's dying in hospital. He's in so much pain and wanted help but there's nothing that can be done for him except morphine. It's really upset me.

!@#$%! · 12.28.2012, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by stu666

I cried tonight. I just got back from seeing my grandad who's dying in hospital. He's in so much pain and wanted help but there's nothing that can be done for him except morphine. It's really upset me.

oh shit man-- sorry, stu.

h8kurdt · 12.28.2012, 04:38 PM

Dammit Stu, just as I was about to put my usual "stop whining" picture with Arnie on you come out with that.

Really sorry to hear that man.

So here's a less twattish one.

Me, you and the one with a mixture of signs.

the ikara cult · 12.28.2012, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by stu666

I cried tonight. I just got back from seeing my grandad who's dying in hospital. He's in so much pain and wanted help but there's nothing that can be done for him except morphine. It's really upset me.

my thoughts are with you Stu. I hope youve got the chance to speak to him whilst he's cogent before he goes. I never got the chance with my grandparents, and i wish i had done

stu666 · 12.28.2012, 05:16 PM

thanks guys

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Originally Posted by the ikara cult

I hope youve got the chance to speak to him whilst he's cogent before he goes. I never got the chance with my grandparents, and i wish i had done

Well that's what made it worse, he didn't really seem to know who I was or where he was. He just wanted the pain to stop.

the ikara cult · 12.28.2012, 05:32 PM

I remember the last time i saw my grandmother, she was an incredibly strong woman but Altzheimers reduced her to having to be treated like a 6 month old baby, wearing nappies and being spoonfed apricot mush. Its not how i remember her really. If theres a chance for you to communicate with them as you remember them, its worth it.

hipster_bebop_junkie · 12.28.2012, 05:47 PM

Sorry to hear that, Stu. Reminds me of my grandmother's death last year. Sounds like a similar situation. I send you hugs and lots of love as well.

Savage Clone · 12.28.2012, 05:57 PM

I have cried more in the last two years than I have in my entire life. I think it is subsiding now, though.

floatingslowly · 12.28.2012, 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Savage Clone

I have cried more in the last two years than I have in my entire life. I think it is subsiding now, though.

Jesus wept.

the ikara cult · 12.28.2012, 07:14 PM

Its hard to get upset about most things, as im sure youll agree

12.28.2012, 11:51 AM	#1
Nefeli invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 2,147,484,111	wow. making a thread for this. wow. sarcasm. so i have great difficulty in crying. i mean, really crying, not for few seconds. i have done it..but really really few times in my life. now, i was thinking - maybe 1st time i have such a clear thought about it- that i could use a nice, long crying. hasnt happen! even put on massage the history and nothing has happened yet. what about you?
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12.28.2012, 11:52 AM	#2
Nefeli invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 2,147,484,111	also, yo! thanks, but this isnt a thread about helping me to cry now. ok? fak it i even smile right now.
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12.28.2012, 11:55 AM	#3
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars Posts: 26,956	a good cry is all a matter of histrionics e.g.-- look at this actor: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ls2lC7DQFMI
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12.28.2012, 12:11 PM	#4
Trama children of satan Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 311	;_;
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12.28.2012, 01:30 PM	#5
Murmer99 expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 1,716	literally happens at least once a month for me inb4emo
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12.28.2012, 01:38 PM	#6
floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,355	The last time I can remember was while watching The Ballad of Genesis and Lady Jaye. It's not like Jaye's death was news, but I felt so very bad for him.....still do. I might cry RIGHT NOW. come on merman69, let's go get some tissues...
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12.28.2012, 01:56 PM	#7
SuchFriendsAreDangerous invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: fucking Los Angeles Posts: 8,324	What, watching CSPAN footage from the House not doing it for ya? Read this then.. By the way, I did indeed recently have a singular inner-Apocalyptic meltdown and succumbed to falling to the floor in a cascade of gut-wrenching tears.. but like Bytor I got a lot on my plate lately, and in truth, it was like three fucking years over-do from not properly grieving the last time I faced the jaws of Hell.. Sometimes its cleansing, others its just boring. I prefer the Stoic approach involving inward psychological masochism and other forms of spiritual nihilism [e.g prying open my third eye.. ], the end result, what the Fathers call Apatheia (a state of existence completely voided of passions, not to be confused with apathy which is a complete lack of concern) __________________ "Men's perspectives become flat, comprehending only the light-reflecting, tangible surfaces of existence; the vista into depth closes over. " Joseph Campbell
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12.28.2012, 03:28 PM	#9
ALIEN ANAL invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 5,423	I dont cry either. I find i get a head ache before i am about to and it puts me off. I havent cried in years. I do wake up at night sobbing. __________________ www.myspace.com/policepoo Recorded Improv Jam If you live in Australia buy my work! http://www.bluethumb.com.au/alienanal Check out my Deviant Art file http://alienanal.deviantart.com/
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12.28.2012, 03:36 PM	#10
the ikara cult invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London sink Posts: 4,504	I have to be absolutely fecking heartbroken + absolutely fecking hammered to REALLY cry. But once thats over I dont remember it ever making me feel better. __________________ "It is absolutely ridiculous, they are behaving like a cult" - The Vatican
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12.28.2012, 04:03 PM	#11
stu666 Super Moderator Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Stowmarket Posts: 12,204	I cried tonight. I just got back from seeing my grandad who's dying in hospital. He's in so much pain and wanted help but there's nothing that can be done for him except morphine. It's really upset me. __________________ http://www.last.fm/group/Sonic+Youth...world+unite%21 http://www.last.fm/group/Sunburned+Hand+Of+The+Man http://tapewormstu.blogspot.co.uk/
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12.28.2012, 04:38 PM	#13
h8kurdt expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In Mulder's Basement room Posts: 2,222	Dammit Stu, just as I was about to put my usual "stop whining" picture with Arnie on you come out with that. Really sorry to hear that man. So here's a less twattish one. Me, you and the one with a mixture of signs. __________________ Down with this sort of thing.
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12.28.2012, 05:32 PM	#16
the ikara cult invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London sink Posts: 4,504	I remember the last time i saw my grandmother, she was an incredibly strong woman but Altzheimers reduced her to having to be treated like a 6 month old baby, wearing nappies and being spoonfed apricot mush. Its not how i remember her really. If theres a chance for you to communicate with them as you remember them, its worth it. __________________ "It is absolutely ridiculous, they are behaving like a cult" - The Vatican
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12.28.2012, 05:47 PM	#17
hipster_bebop_junkie invito al cielo Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 3,426	Sorry to hear that, Stu. Reminds me of my grandmother's death last year. Sounds like a similar situation. I send you hugs and lots of love as well.
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12.28.2012, 05:57 PM	#18
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,895	I have cried more in the last two years than I have in my entire life. I think it is subsiding now, though.
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12.28.2012, 07:14 PM	#20
the ikara cult invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London sink Posts: 4,504	Its hard to get upset about most things, as im sure youll agree __________________ "It is absolutely ridiculous, they are behaving like a cult" - The Vatican
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