I hate life.

Anngella · 10.31.2007, 10:17 PM

Too much homework, hardly any sleep, no time for food, minimal friends, maximum anxiety at school from the gross of people. I wish I had the balls to Cobain myself.

Blah blah teenage angst blah blah. I just need a distraction.

!@#$%! · 10.31.2007, 10:20 PM

too much vajayjay talk, if you want my opinion.

Everyneurotic · 10.31.2007, 10:20 PM

kurt-cabooming yourself is for pussies.

luxinterior · 10.31.2007, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Anngella

Too much homework,

Yes.

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hardly any sleep,

Yes.

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no time for food,

No money for food.

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minimal friends,

A few decent ones = enough for me.

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maximum anxiety at school from the gross of people.

Fair enough.

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I wish I had the balls to Cobain myself.

Don't do that.

!@#$%! · 10.31.2007, 10:32 PM

let me just ellaborate on my first post & say that you're a hell of a lot more interesting when you're not hiding behind sex/vaginas/masturbation/ every other post.

you're really smart & funny and creative, and if you can't find too many friends at school you'll find them later on. school is just not for everyone. for me it was like prison.

and yeah i get it that you're desperate, and in more ways than one, but it's the same with everyone at some point. and eventually, it gets better.

but really hm the more you are open to other people (i.e. not hiding behind vaginas) the more they'll get a chance to discover the cool aspects of your personality. some times you just need to risk the chance.

SynthethicalY · 10.31.2007, 10:38 PM

Don't worry life will get better, it does if you insist on it. Friends you are not missing much, but be very selective because if you just choose random friends it just becomes a bore with them.

Anngella · 10.31.2007, 10:40 PM

I really don't talk all that much about vaginas in real life. Well I don't really talk at all. I'm just obnoxious on here because I can be.
This thread was kind of pointless and impulsive. I don't even really know what's going on. There are cat ears on my speakers.. Happy Halloween!

But thanks for the advice, 'tis 'preciated.

luxinterior · 10.31.2007, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

you're really smart & funny and creative, and if you can't find too many friends at school you'll find them later on. school is just not for everyone.

This is all true. I didn't have a set group of friends until I was a senior in high school. I can't really remember what I did before that...just whatever I felt like I guess.

I didn't make friends my first semester at ECC (where I am now), but I enjoyed being around the people I had in my classes. Also I was just coming off of a bad experience at my old college and I wasn't so much in the friend-making mood. This semester I do have friends, but it didn't happen instantly. It is true that once I started acting like my normal self in front of these people, it was easier to make friends with them.

SynthethicalY · 10.31.2007, 10:43 PM

I agree with what Lux said. Be yourself, if people don't like it screw them.

!@#$%! · 10.31.2007, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Anngella

I really don't talk all that much about vaginas in real life. Well I don't really talk at all. I'm just obnoxious on here because I can be.
This thread was kind of pointless and impulsive. I don't even really know what's going on. There are cat ears on my speakers.. Happy Halloween!

But thanks for the advice, 'tis 'preciated.

well yes, it is evident that the vagina schtick is a ruse to hide your sensitive and shy self. (still, it gets tiresome). so i can only extrapolate that you still hide yourself in "real life".

so my point-- what is my point? when you're schtick-free you're really cool, and yeah it takes time & patience to find the people who can appreciate that, but (as with the talk of vaginas), remaining hidden will push potential friends away.

my point is... what is my point? oh i have no point.

anyway, highschool is a good time to learn useful social skills. even if you're surrounded by pricks, you need to learn to get along with them, because they control valuable resources you need.

so-- not everybody needs to be your friend, but it's important to learn to dance-- hello, goodbye, laugh at jokes, make jokes, etc. the more comfortable you are with these stupid rituals the more you can show your true self and actually meet interesting people who are compatible with you.

but anyway. i need dinner.

Anngella · 10.31.2007, 10:51 PM

I don't really have a hard time making friends, I know tons of cool people who like me and whatever. But I met a lot of them on Myspace (which is totally lame, yet, totally 2007) and I just have trouble maintaining them and/or becoming close with them.

I'm complaining way too much and it's bugging me. I wonder what good candy my sister got..
I just called someone "dawg" -definitely a sign of overtiredness.

Alex's Trip · 10.31.2007, 10:53 PM

I love school. Well, learning. Learning makes me feel like I'm improving myself. And we can all use improvements.

But I want it to be over so I can get out of here and leave for college.

[/nerd]

Everyneurotic · 10.31.2007, 10:54 PM

don't listen to !@#$%!'s last part of the post!

sure, you have to coexist with people, but fuck trying to get along with them, be yourself and surround yourself with people you're comfortable with, if you can't find any, be comfortable with yourself and honest with yourself.

basically, chill out, don't intellectualize this too much and you'll find yourself out of this anxiety heavy period before you know it.

!@#$%! · 10.31.2007, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Anngella

I don't really have a hard time making friends, I know tons of cool people who like me and whatever. But I met a lot of them on Myspace (which is totally lame, yet, totally 2007) and I just have trouble maintaining them and/or becoming close with them.

I'm complaining way too much and it's bugging me. I wonder what good candy my sister got..
I just called someone "dawg" -definitely a sign of overtiredness.

hit & run.

well hm of course you're going to have trouble becoming close to people when you maintain things at a superficial level-- take this very post, for example. here you start saying something real and interesting, but then you get shy and the distractions pop up-- candy, dawg, whatever-- crap.

just have the balls to be yourself, you know? sure not everyone is going to like you, nobody is liked by everyone, but at least you'll know that those who like you really do. in other words-- nut up, and speak your mind

Norma J · 10.31.2007, 11:00 PM

Honesty and tact work on equal measures.

!@#$%! · 10.31.2007, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic

don't listen to !@#$%!'s last part of the post!

sure, you have to coexist with people, but fuck trying to get along with them, be yourself and surround yourself with people you're comfortable with, if you can't find any, be comfortable with yourself and honest with yourself.

basically, chill out, don't intellectualize this too much and you'll find yourself out of this anxiety heavy period before you know it.

surrounding yourself with yourself is bad in chess and bad business, and it will keep you poor for life. getting along with people is an important skill-- mere diplomacy-- separate from real friendships. "good morning this is my photo portfolio, this is what i charge per session, you can find me at this number, have a nice day". you gotta fucking have that or you're crippled.

Anngella · 10.31.2007, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

I love school. Well, learning. Learning makes me feel like I'm improving myself. And we can all use improvements.

But I want it to be over so I can get out of here and leave for college.

[/nerd]

I feel the same, most of the time. When there's something I don't understand I'm too stubborn to ask because I don't like feeling stupid hah.

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic

basically, chill out, don't intellectualize this too much and you'll find yourself out of this anxiety heavy period before you know it.

That's really good advice, thank you.

I do agree that getting along with people is a good skill to have, and I really don't have a problem with that in most cases. It just depends on the situation. If it's someone I'm just meeting, then I'm totally fine, but if it's an idiot/ass/twatgobbler then I (naturally) don't get along with them well.

Everyneurotic · 10.31.2007, 11:10 PM

i agree wholeheartedly but she's in high school, those are things she'll pick up but first she has to be true to herself so she can differentiate between people like this and people that are genuinely cool people.

it's one thing to be in a work situation and another to be with the cliques and the popular dipshits etc. etc.

i usually agree with your advices, and this one is good in a more mature situation, but not in her case.

besides, i think she does handle herself well in situations like that, or so it seems.

SuchFriendsAreDangerous · 10.31.2007, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Anngella

I wish I had the balls to Cobain myself.

that is a fucked up way to describe your frustrations.

SynthethicalY · 10.31.2007, 11:16 PM

Angella, I used to be in your place, and from experience I can tell you that if you work your ass off, and don't give up you will be fine. Remember that your problems are temporary, that is something I learned the hard way. But it is true.

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Anngella expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vagina Posts: 1,900	Too much homework, hardly any sleep, no time for food, minimal friends, maximum anxiety at school from the gross of people. I wish I had the balls to Cobain myself. Blah blah teenage angst blah blah. I just need a distraction. __________________ FLICKR http://slouchingsunflowers.tumblr.com/
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!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,483	too much vajayjay talk, if you want my opinion.
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Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	kurt-cabooming yourself is for pussies. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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10.31.2007, 10:32 PM	#5
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,483	let me just ellaborate on my first post & say that you're a hell of a lot more interesting when you're not hiding behind sex/vaginas/masturbation/ every other post. you're really smart & funny and creative, and if you can't find too many friends at school you'll find them later on. school is just not for everyone. for me it was like prison. and yeah i get it that you're desperate, and in more ways than one, but it's the same with everyone at some point. and eventually, it gets better. but really hm the more you are open to other people (i.e. not hiding behind vaginas) the more they'll get a chance to discover the cool aspects of your personality. some times you just need to risk the chance.
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10.31.2007, 10:38 PM	#6
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Don't worry life will get better, it does if you insist on it. Friends you are not missing much, but be very selective because if you just choose random friends it just becomes a bore with them.
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10.31.2007, 10:40 PM	#7
Anngella expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vagina Posts: 1,900	I really don't talk all that much about vaginas in real life. Well I don't really talk at all. I'm just obnoxious on here because I can be. This thread was kind of pointless and impulsive. I don't even really know what's going on. There are cat ears on my speakers.. Happy Halloween! But thanks for the advice, 'tis 'preciated. __________________ FLICKR http://slouchingsunflowers.tumblr.com/
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10.31.2007, 10:43 PM	#9
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	I agree with what Lux said. Be yourself, if people don't like it screw them.
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10.31.2007, 10:51 PM	#11
Anngella expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Vagina Posts: 1,900	I don't really have a hard time making friends, I know tons of cool people who like me and whatever. But I met a lot of them on Myspace (which is totally lame, yet, totally 2007) and I just have trouble maintaining them and/or becoming close with them. I'm complaining way too much and it's bugging me. I wonder what good candy my sister got.. I just called someone "dawg" -definitely a sign of overtiredness. __________________ FLICKR http://slouchingsunflowers.tumblr.com/
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10.31.2007, 10:53 PM	#12
Alex's Trip invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 5,608	I love school. Well, learning. Learning makes me feel like I'm improving myself. And we can all use improvements. But I want it to be over so I can get out of here and leave for college. [/nerd] __________________ KALOPSIA
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10.31.2007, 10:54 PM	#13
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	don't listen to !@#$%!'s last part of the post! sure, you have to coexist with people, but fuck trying to get along with them, be yourself and surround yourself with people you're comfortable with, if you can't find any, be comfortable with yourself and honest with yourself. basically, chill out, don't intellectualize this too much and you'll find yourself out of this anxiety heavy period before you know it. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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10.31.2007, 11:00 PM	#15
Norma J invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Orstralia Posts: 4,917	Honesty and tact work on equal measures. __________________ I want girls with new-wave hair-doos
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10.31.2007, 11:10 PM	#18
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	i agree wholeheartedly but she's in high school, those are things she'll pick up but first she has to be true to herself so she can differentiate between people like this and people that are genuinely cool people. it's one thing to be in a work situation and another to be with the cliques and the popular dipshits etc. etc. i usually agree with your advices, and this one is good in a more mature situation, but not in her case. besides, i think she does handle herself well in situations like that, or so it seems. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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10.31.2007, 11:16 PM	#20
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Angella, I used to be in your place, and from experience I can tell you that if you work your ass off, and don't give up you will be fine. Remember that your problems are temporary, that is something I learned the hard way. But it is true.
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