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Originally Posted by Nefeli

^ yeah well, trust me on this.

but check this out! part of my dream last night!
i was in a like french village or smth and i was going back and forth in and out to the same delicatessen shops, trying to chose which cheese and salami and ham to buy. i was also trying to find the best combination of gourmet and cheap.
at the end i made some choices, but apparently i couldnt buy those because they were not for sale; they were for the shopkeeper to make sandwiches to sell. damn!



* edit cant help myself; it is crystal clear that this dream was about boyfriends. DREAM ANALYSIS IS AWESOME!

or maybe it's about economics

 

[afterthefact]

Originally Posted by dale_gribble

odd, why would someone be hurt by a dream? considering you typically don't have control over what your dreams are about.

You don't have control over the dreams, yet at the same time the dreams are completely fabricated in your own mind, so it's the lack of conscious control you have that can lead to others' hurt feelings. The dream can appear to be a manifestation of your innermost feelings about a person, unbridled by your possibly usual suppression.

[gast30]

what i had in a dream once was that i had hurted (emotionally) the feelings of my friends

[dale_gribble]

Originally Posted by afterthefact

You don't have control over the dreams, yet at the same time the dreams are completely fabricated in your own mind, so it's the lack of conscious control you have that can lead to others' hurt feelings. The dream can appear to be a manifestation of your innermost feelings about a person, unbridled by your possibly usual suppression.

good point, not typical of my dreams though...i mean usually don't have that type of dream. i suppose i forgot that everyone has different kinds of dreams.

[foreverasskiss]

Originally Posted by Nefeli

i am also getting this sort of 'sleeping paralysis' a lot lately.
first time i got it was in my early 20s. then there were long time gabs between the next time.
its a really scary fucker this thing and it took me years to start telling people.

i need to make changes in my everyday life.

i've stated this here before, but..

been having sleep paralysis since i was a kid. they don't scare me as they use to because i've learn to control them or either prevent them by forcing myself out of one and rolling over on my side where it is less likely for them to occurr. i think gravity plays a big part in opening yr eyes better if your on your back than yr side..... so i've read.

they usually happen once or twice a month for me or more(which is unusual in most people who suffer from it), but nothing too memorable lately. you can get some kick-ass lucid dreams if your brave enough to venture and let yourself go.

so yeah, i know all bout it beside that stupid old-hag myth.

[Nefeli]

Originally Posted by foreverasskiss

you can get some kick-ass lucid dreams if your brave enough to venture and let yourself go.

this although it makes sense, i cant think ways to make it interesting, because a) its not dreams, b) its just my bedroom and i there on bed the way i fell asleep and things/people/figures happening around me, and c) for example, i dont want to have porn 'dreams' while am at it, because there is so much pressure to get out of it while it is happening, so i dont believe this will be much fun..


about that dream with the person, who would get hurt if he knew:
the dream isnt reality, but the way i feel while in the dream and after (relief) is, and he would get hurt because its very close to ultimate rejection.

[dale_gribble]

Originally Posted by Nefeli

about that dream with the person, who would get hurt if he knew:
the dream isnt reality, but the way i feel while in the dream and after (relief) is, and he would get hurt because its very close to ultimate rejection.

i see, i would like to believe if i was that person i would understand...but i can see how most could get hurt.