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Old 03.06.2014, 03:14 PM   #81
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we're all trapped in a realm of sex and death, blind genetic replicators trying to cancel themselves out using our bodies as their puppets - judgement or condemnation will not suffice to bring anybody clarity. the bacterial ooze that we are descended from has no knowledge of morality. let us rejoice in the pursuit of extinction, for it is the only respite for we the diseased and broken toys known as homo sapiens.
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Old 03.06.2014, 06:00 PM   #82
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I would be honored and would love to see it! this is the face that he tends to make when he's drumming, or say, plotting destruction. so metal.

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ed should be the king of SYG!! what am i talking about... THE KING OF THE WORLD! THE UNIVERSE!

this wouldn't be the first time that has been discussed. what with the throngs of strangers who feel somehow compelled to touch and adulate him, his mother is quite certain that he's messianic. whenever I suggest that mayhaps he's something else entirely, I draw her scornful ire. he's some kind of angel, for certain.
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Old 03.07.2014, 01:53 AM   #83
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Old 03.07.2014, 02:48 AM   #84
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Old 03.07.2014, 09:20 AM   #85
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No, but when people have kids and are married they should prioritize their kids. Too many people are just fucking selfish, just looking out for themselves, meanwhile their children suffer the consequences.. I don't think people should force themselves to say married, but if they have kids, and in particular have been married for several years, including several years of their kids' life, they should work at it.

Just a note. None of our grandparents who were married for 50 or 60 years had perfect marriages, or were perfect people, or were always head over heels in love. They did the fucking WORK it takes to make a marriage last, they also FORGAVE each other of their mutual mistakes and shortcomings, and MADE it work for their kids. AND I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU JADED TROLLS OR UPTIGHT QUASI-FEMINISTS HAVE TO FUCKING SAY ABOUT IT, PEOPLE WHO SACRIFICE THEMSELVES FOR THEIR CHILDREN AND THEIR MARRIAGE ARE ADMIRABLE PEOPLE. A million times more impressive than any of us low-life fucks around here


You seem to be an intelligent dude who puts a lot of effort into what he's posting on here, but sometimes i wonder what's going on in your head.

I come from a highly dysfunctional but "intact" family. The only divorce has been that of my father and mother (not counting my fathers other 3 divorces). It's weird, although my mother is still really heartbroke that my father left her, it was for the best. I mean, he went on to marry the daughter of Gaston Glock, became gun lobbyist and died from a heart-attack when he was a 55 years old alcoholic. He was a horrible person before divorce too.
My grandparents (both sides) were married for about 60 years and had unbelievably dispassionate relationships (ok, also they were nazis, with the males fighting for Third Reich in Russia and Poland).
Guess what, every single child out these two marriages is seriously fucked up one way or another: one aunt being a schizophrenic who isn't able to live on her own, one aunt being a catholic saint zombie, a rich uncle who lives in a fucking castle and won't talk to anyone from the family because he's afraid his rich friends will find out he's from a poor farmers family, my mother being depressed all the time living with a man now for 10 years that she doesn't even remotely like... And their kids (coming from intact marriages, with me and my siblings being the exception) are fucked up beyond belief too (with me and my siblings not being exception).

Maybe this an extreme case, i don't really know, but tons of my friends come from similar families.
And some have divorced parents who managed to do a great job with raising their kids.
Some married couples are doing a great job with their kids.

Ultimately, why the hell do you believe that marriage is the important factor for love, respect and the way to raise kids?

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Old 03.07.2014, 10:48 AM   #86
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You seem to be an intelligent dude who puts a lot of effort into what he's posting on here, but sometimes i wonder what's going on in your head.
Like all god botherers, suchfriends' views are part his (the sensible parts) and part his religion's (the mental as fuck parts).
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Old 03.07.2014, 11:12 AM   #87
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i read that as 'good brothers' first, then had to look up 'god botherers' just to find out it actually means 'good brothers' (in a way).
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Old 03.07.2014, 11:49 AM   #88
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"god-botherer"

hahaha.. I ain't never bothered nobody about it, just share who I am, funny y'all are always free to share who y'all are, but if I share who I am I get attacked.

as to my comments about marraige, they're not influenced by my religion at all, in fact, my religion has very specific views internally on religion exclusively for Orthodox Christians which aren't expected of anyone else, so why would I even bother pushing those views on y'all?

Further, sonicgail is MY FRIEND, and the comments I posted were very specific. Y'all are throwing around congratulatory high-fives and Oprah "you go girls" without also really being her friend and supporting the reality that divorce isn't magic. its not suddenly going to make everything better, or easier, and its not going to make the work of raising children go away, it just changes the equation. the math is still there. the work is still there.

I'm not going to drag out her private business all across the forum, just explaining myself since I seem to have been competely misunderstood, as always. I ain't got beef with sonicgail, I ain't hating on her, I ain't even suggesting she should have stayed in that relationship, after all, she proved my point more than anything in trying her best for 17 years. More than most people...

Its the TRYING part I'm concerned with. Raising a family takes effort, it takes TRYING your best, even when things fail. My comments then are not to discourage her, but rather to be REALISTIC, there is still A LOT of work for her to do, and I hope and pray that this "breath of fresh air" reinvigorates her energy to step up and continue to be the heroic mom she already is. ALL moms are heroic, especially those who are trying their best.
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Old 03.07.2014, 12:24 PM   #89
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Old 03.07.2014, 12:26 PM   #90
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Old 03.07.2014, 08:23 PM   #91
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Its the TRYING part I'm concerned with. Raising a family takes effort, it takes TRYING your best, even when things fail.

I'm going to choose to ignore the inherent sexism in your "you go girl" remark, but HOW DARE YOU.

trying? HOW DARE YOU.

this may be the biggest bunch of horseshit I've ever seen you type. man, and have I seen some horseshit.
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Old 03.07.2014, 08:29 PM   #92
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Old 03.07.2014, 10:50 PM   #93
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and just to be perfectly clear, it's not that your statement itself contains fallacies, it's the pedestal that you've placed yourself upon in determining how another person has or has not "tried" in their attempts at a relationship with another. I'm quite sure that the blible has a thing or two to say on this matter....girlfriend.
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Old 03.07.2014, 11:00 PM   #94
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I ain't even suggesting she should have stayed in that relationship, after all, she proved my point more than anything in trying her best for 17 years. More than most people...

Its the TRYING part I'm concerned with.

Put that back into its proper context you so cleverly avoided in your tirade. She tried her best, and now that she has moved on she has to continue trying her best this time in a different way, on her own. That is not easy, and like I said, divorce isn't magic, and no, the Bible has nothing to do with any of it.
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Old 03.07.2014, 11:21 PM   #95
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and I hope and pray that this "breath of fresh air" reinvigorates her energy to step up and continue to be the heroic mom she already is. ALL moms are heroic, especially those who are trying their best.

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Congrats on a new life start Gail. An unhappy relationship of any kind is never a beneficial choice to your emotional self, or to any kids surrounding its toxic runoff. Good luck on your new path and staying clean and everything wonderful after that.
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I think the most bothersome part of what you've said such friends, is the implication that a victim of emotional abuse(which is what it sounds like Gail has been going through) has the entire burden of sustaining a marriage, and if they don't just stay they aren't trying hard enough? There is a lot to be said for realizing your limits on a psychological level, and that at some point walking away is less damaging and more courageous for everyone involved, than staying to face a wall of arrows evermore... Simply because you're "married". A promise is a beautiful thing, but the fear of breaking the sanctity of marriage because of pride, a higher power, or an embodiment of and display of strength, is still, a fear. Why plough on for years to prove a point that you can, when life's pleasures, relationships, and loves are about so much more. You may weather the longest storm but at what cost?
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what the fuck is going on here. all the people i have on ignore are posting a bunch of posts. should i read them?

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