Single or taken? - Page 9

_slavo_ · 11.16.2018, 04:11 AM

punk rock first kiss. that's something to remember.

MrsCat · 11.20.2018, 10:04 AM

Taken and happy.

Dr. Eugene Felikson · 11.21.2018, 05:27 AM

single, so very fucking single these days.

I have trouble being interested in women unless i really connect w/ them on a mental level, and i tense up and become veryu introverted around strangers. i'm a bit out there

choc e-Claire · 11.23.2018, 05:53 AM

Result: didn't get a first kiss, but did get to hold hands on the car trip back. Also feel bad because they spent some time in a back room (they were feeling a bit out of it) and I didn't keep them company, but we're going to hang out again soon.

(As it turns out, my ex is doing better for themselves than I am.)

h8kurdt · 11.23.2018, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by choc e-Claire

Result: didn't get a first kiss, but did get to hold hands on the car trip back. Also feel bad because they spent some time in a back room (they were feeling a bit out of it) and I didn't keep them company, but we're going to hang out again soon.

(As it turns out, my ex is doing better for themselves than I am.)

Remember it ain't a race

choc e-Claire · 11.23.2018, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by h8kurdt

Remember it ain't a race

I know, things come at their own time. But it was interesting to see them getting hands-on with their paramour.

They tried to slowdance during 'All Star' though. Should have picked it better

_slavo_ · 11.26.2018, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by choc e-Claire

Result: didn't get a first kiss, but did get to hold hands on the car trip back. Also feel bad because they spent some time in a back room (they were feeling a bit out of it) and I didn't keep them company, but we're going to hang out again soon.

Seems like it didn't go that bad at all!

choc e-Claire · 11.27.2018, 04:43 PM

choc e-Claire's Romantic Life Update #4:

I asked them to be in a relationship this morning. (I know, it's really cowardly to do it over text, but since we're a hundred miles away from each other and I didn't know when we'd come into contact again, I figured it was worth the risk.)

After a bit of flattery and the question, they said that they didn't know (they've never been in a relationship). I offered having a few dates to try something, and they said maybe.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crush

I do like hanging out with u and ur really nice! But I don't know if I feel that click

Or maybe not yet

So we're now trying to arrange a time to hang out, probably either this weekend or next. So I guess...it didn't fail?

!@#$%! · 11.27.2018, 05:07 PM

piece of advice: i wouldn't push it

choc e-Claire · 11.27.2018, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

piece of advice: i wouldn't push it

Yeah, I've realised that they're not as into me as I am into them.

Still hurts a bit though.

!@#$%! · 11.27.2018, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by choc e-Claire

Yeah, I've realised that they're not as into me as I am into them.

Still hurts a bit though.

yes of course. i'm sorry. it's okay to mourn.

and things still might change in the future, if you become attractive to them in that way.

but nobody ever made themselves attractive to others by "convincing" them of it.

it's okay to be friendzoned. thats just life.

what's not okay is pressuring a friend to give what they don't want. that way lies ruin.

choc e-Claire · 11.27.2018, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

what's not okay is pressuring a friend to give what they don't want. that way lies ruin.

sigh

Yeah, you're right. I guess I should be happy with being friends with them, at least.

One of my best friends this year (and the cause of more emotional angst) was a girl who I'd originally had a crush on but eventually went to just being friends, I buried it a little.

Then again, I haven't talked to my ex in months - we've drifted apart, and it looks like we're staying that way.

#teenangst

!@#$%! · 11.27.2018, 05:30 PM

lol

this is kinda funny, but the easier you can let go the more attractive you become

it's kinda tricky, but you'll learn

patience, grasshopper

choc e-Claire · 12.08.2018, 12:31 AM

I went over to their house today, and we cuddled while playing Grand Theft Auto.

I feel bad though since I'm worried I might have overstep, and I've texted them to say sorry and pre-emptively apologise.

Also, fuck me they're hot.

EVOLghost · 12.08.2018, 12:24 PM

^^ Das cute, like symbols says...don’t push it, it this is also coming from someone quite passive....

I’m still in a relationship 4 years later. Funny how these things work....we both started uhh....’seeing’ each other mostly off of physical attraction and weren’t in the moods for a serious relationship and now...we’re in he most serious relationship and have moved halfway across the country....lolwat?

choc e-Claire · 12.08.2018, 02:27 PM

Update: they texted me and said it didn't feel right, so I guess that's it.

Dr. Eugene Felikson · 12.08.2018, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by choc e-Claire

Update: they texted me and said it didn't feel right, so I guess that's it.

Don't sweat it, you're super young and there'll be plenty of other opportunities. Just don't pester your crush, and one day - hey you never know. I've had it happen before.

pro-tip: people typically want what they cant have. i'm still learning that the hard way

EVOLghost · 12.08.2018, 04:34 PM

^^^ he’s right. Don’t sweat it, don’t stress it, don’t do ANYTHING too quickly

choc e-Claire · 12.08.2018, 04:37 PM

Don't worry, I'm giving it a bit of time - it's nearly Christmas, so I can wish them a good one and get back to chatting a little closer.

Mostly just bummed out, that's all.

floatingslowly · 12.08.2018, 04:39 PM

Somehow, I won the relationship lottery. I’m married to my best friend. She’s hot, she’s nerdy, and apparently thinks I’m attractive, even though in all honesty, I probably resemble an elderly version of Shrek.

José how yr girl got such perfect teef? She’s always smiling, like she’s honestly happy, and I would too, if I had those teefs.

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11.16.2018, 04:11 AM	#161
_slavo_ invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ðîññèÿ Posts: 10,886	punk rock first kiss. that's something to remember. __________________ you're the boy that can enjoy invisibility
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11.20.2018, 10:04 AM	#162
MrsCat empty page Join Date: Nov 2018 Location: London Posts: 2	Taken and happy.
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11.21.2018, 05:27 AM	#163
Dr. Eugene Felikson invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 7,570	single, so very fucking single these days. I have trouble being interested in women unless i really connect w/ them on a mental level, and i tense up and become veryu introverted around strangers. i'm a bit out there
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11.23.2018, 05:53 AM	#164
choc e-Claire expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Oct 2018 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 2,408	Result: didn't get a first kiss, but did get to hold hands on the car trip back. Also feel bad because they spent some time in a back room (they were feeling a bit out of it) and I didn't keep them company, but we're going to hang out again soon. (As it turns out, my ex is doing better for themselves than I am.) __________________ Making myself up as I go along. Check out my music-themed blog, 79:57.
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11.27.2018, 05:07 PM	#169
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,457	piece of advice: i wouldn't push it
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11.27.2018, 05:30 PM	#173
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,457	lol this is kinda funny, but the easier you can let go the more attractive you become it's kinda tricky, but you'll learn patience, grasshopper
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12.08.2018, 12:31 AM	#174
choc e-Claire expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Oct 2018 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 2,408	I went over to their house today, and we cuddled while playing Grand Theft Auto. I feel bad though since I'm worried I might have overstep, and I've texted them to say sorry and pre-emptively apologise. Also, fuck me they're hot. __________________ Making myself up as I go along. Check out my music-themed blog, 79:57.
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12.08.2018, 12:24 PM	#175
EVOLghost invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: cybatraz! Posts: 11,537	^^ Das cute, like symbols says...don’t push it, it this is also coming from someone quite passive.... I’m still in a relationship 4 years later. Funny how these things work....we both started uhh....’seeing’ each other mostly off of physical attraction and weren’t in the moods for a serious relationship and now...we’re in he most serious relationship and have moved halfway across the country....lolwat?
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12.08.2018, 02:27 PM	#176
choc e-Claire expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Oct 2018 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 2,408	Update: they texted me and said it didn't feel right, so I guess that's it. __________________ Making myself up as I go along. Check out my music-themed blog, 79:57.
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12.08.2018, 04:34 PM	#178
EVOLghost invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: cybatraz! Posts: 11,537	^^^ he’s right. Don’t sweat it, don’t stress it, don’t do ANYTHING too quickly
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12.08.2018, 04:37 PM	#179
choc e-Claire expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Oct 2018 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 2,408	Don't worry, I'm giving it a bit of time - it's nearly Christmas, so I can wish them a good one and get back to chatting a little closer. Mostly just bummed out, that's all. __________________ Making myself up as I go along. Check out my music-themed blog, 79:57.
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12.08.2018, 04:39 PM	#180
floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,165	Somehow, I won the relationship lottery. I’m married to my best friend. She’s hot, she’s nerdy, and apparently thinks I’m attractive, even though in all honesty, I probably resemble an elderly version of Shrek. José how yr girl got such perfect teef? She’s always smiling, like she’s honestly happy, and I would too, if I had those teefs.
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