I need some advice...

Everyneurotic · 10.28.2006, 01:13 PM

my love interest is throwing a halloween party tonight, she just told me about it a couple of minutes ago, it's a costumes party and i have no costume; worse, since i don't know the details well, she might have had invited her boyfriend to the party too and i don't want to be in a party with her and her boyfriend (of course, there's a chance she didn't invite him).

so, should i go to the party?

ni'k · 10.28.2006, 01:16 PM

Yeah. Show up at the party, maybe an hour or two after it has started. Be casual. Don't worry about not dressing up. There is zero chance that everyone else at the party will have, there will always be a bunch of other people that don't. Show up, check the place out, say hi, check if her boyfriend is there or not. If he is just hang out a while and leave. Don't get too worked up about it or over analyse it, just enjoy yrself man.

jon boy · 10.28.2006, 01:16 PM

yes and if it looks like you cnat get it on then just flirt with her best friend.

porkmarras · 10.28.2006, 01:20 PM

Yeah go and have a good time,no matter what.

!@#$%! · 10.28.2006, 01:23 PM

my simple advice: stay clear of the bitch if she has a boyfriend and is fucking with your head. ha ha. my apologies if this is the wrong assumption.

BUT

of course if you go there is a chance the boyfriend will get plastered, make an ass of himself, punch her in the eye, then YOU kick his ass and end up in bed with the girl.

that plan might of course backfire and you might have to watch her make out merrily with said goon.

i say go, but BE A MAN & play your cards the best way you can and if you lose well take it like a man, if you win make sure you don't drink too much so you can get it up and hm outshine the other bastard.

anyway i'm recycling an old costume for tonight. you should wear something scary, so people don't mess with you :P

against_the_grain · 10.28.2006, 01:24 PM

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there is a chance the boyfriend will get plastered, make an ass of himself, punch her in the eye, then YOU kick his ass and end up in bed with the girl.

There you go !

Appear as some beefed up tough guy....so if you DO run across her boyfriend ... you could just kick his ass !! hahahaha...

porkmarras · 10.28.2006, 01:28 PM

Alternatively,go to the party and tell her that you're seeing Brix Smith(Mark E. Smith's ex wife) at the moment.That'll teach all of them.

Everyneurotic · 10.28.2006, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

my simple advice: stay clear of the bitch if she has a boyfriend and is fucking with your head. ha ha. my apologies if this is the wrong assumption...

it's not the same girl i posted about a while back.

ni'k · 10.28.2006, 01:31 PM

In a coincidence, my ex girlfriend invited me to her house party tonight, haven't seen her in ages, last time I did we were in love, I dumped her, then I wanted to get back together with her but she said no and left.

She invited me, asked me to bring friends if I wanted, etc. I'm not sure what her intentions are. I have a feeling that she has noone coming to her party and thus invited me and asked me to bring people to fill up the numbers, don't know if I will go or not. Its half seven the night of the party and I really should decide.

!@#$%! · 10.28.2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic

it's not the same girl i posted about a while back.

oh, good to know. well if you're looking to bump the current boyfriend of this girl you speak of you have to be circling around like a hawk. i was going to say vulture but there are unsavory associations with the imagery. in any case best wishes man. if i was the other guy i would kick your ass, but hey, all is fair in love and war, blah blah blah, right?

do what porkie says & have a good time no matter what.

sonik death · 10.28.2006, 02:34 PM

You should get your own god damn girlfriend, and stop mooning after someone elses, you fucktard saddo!

schizophrenicroom · 10.28.2006, 10:59 PM

you should go. you never know how the night will play out.

Norma J · 10.29.2006, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by sonik death

You should get your own god damn girlfriend, and stop mooning after someone elses, you fucktard saddo!

Right on!

jon boy · 10.29.2006, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Kegmama

So, did Everyneurotic go?! Post details man...

Hope that chick is not a tease. Keep in mind too that if she cheats on her boyfriend, or breaks up with him 'for' you, there is no guarantee she would not do the same to you eventually. Us girls are evil like that.

is that so?

fishmonkey · 10.29.2006, 10:02 AM

go and get pissed, fuck em all.

Everyneurotic · 10.29.2006, 02:38 PM

i ended up not going.

we have a lot of history together, and i'm supposedly friends with her boyfriend althought she has never admitted he's her boyfriend (it's complicated like that); i thought about going and doing what !@#$%! suggested, since going to the party for an hour and leaving before her boyfriend would mean he "won" or something, but i thought i wouldn't have fun watching her be diplomatic with others and thinking i'd have to chat with people i didn't want to speak to. i'd rather party when i get her alone...

i ended up going to a club with some other friends.

atari 2600 · 10.29.2006, 02:55 PM

Well, that probably sent a better message anyway to not go.

You must be pretty bad off to seek advice from a bunch of "morons" like us hehee.

Danny Himself · 10.29.2006, 04:38 PM

A class act all the way. *claps*

Everyneurotic · 10.30.2006, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by atari 2600

You must be pretty bad off to seek advice from a bunch of "morons" like us hehee.

hahahahahahahaha, desperate times call for desperate meassures.

i'd rep you if i hadn't repped you recently.

10.28.2006, 01:13 PM	#1
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	my love interest is throwing a halloween party tonight, she just told me about it a couple of minutes ago, it's a costumes party and i have no costume; worse, since i don't know the details well, she might have had invited her boyfriend to the party too and i don't want to be in a party with her and her boyfriend (of course, there's a chance she didn't invite him). so, should i go to the party? __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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10.28.2006, 01:16 PM	#2
ni'k invito al cielo Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,360	Yeah. Show up at the party, maybe an hour or two after it has started. Be casual. Don't worry about not dressing up. There is zero chance that everyone else at the party will have, there will always be a bunch of other people that don't. Show up, check the place out, say hi, check if her boyfriend is there or not. If he is just hang out a while and leave. Don't get too worked up about it or over analyse it, just enjoy yrself man.
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10.28.2006, 01:16 PM	#3
jon boy invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: psycho battery Posts: 12,161	yes and if it looks like you cnat get it on then just flirt with her best friend. __________________ Sarcasm[A] is stating the opposite of an intended meaning especially in order to sneeringly, slyly, jest or mock a person, situation or thing \|@ <------- Euphoric brain cell just moments before expiration V _ \ / _ PING <-------- moments later / \ http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljhxq...isruo1_500.gif
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10.28.2006, 01:20 PM	#4
porkmarras invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London - UK Posts: 14,313	Yeah go and have a good time,no matter what. __________________
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10.28.2006, 01:23 PM	#5
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,468	my simple advice: stay clear of the bitch if she has a boyfriend and is fucking with your head. ha ha. my apologies if this is the wrong assumption. BUT of course if you go there is a chance the boyfriend will get plastered, make an ass of himself, punch her in the eye, then YOU kick his ass and end up in bed with the girl. that plan might of course backfire and you might have to watch her make out merrily with said goon. i say go, but BE A MAN & play your cards the best way you can and if you lose well take it like a man, if you win make sure you don't drink too much so you can get it up and hm outshine the other bastard. anyway i'm recycling an old costume for tonight. you should wear something scary, so people don't mess with you :P
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10.28.2006, 01:28 PM	#7
porkmarras invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London - UK Posts: 14,313	Alternatively,go to the party and tell her that you're seeing Brix Smith(Mark E. Smith's ex wife) at the moment.That'll teach all of them. __________________
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10.28.2006, 01:31 PM	#9
ni'k invito al cielo Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,360	In a coincidence, my ex girlfriend invited me to her house party tonight, haven't seen her in ages, last time I did we were in love, I dumped her, then I wanted to get back together with her but she said no and left. She invited me, asked me to bring friends if I wanted, etc. I'm not sure what her intentions are. I have a feeling that she has noone coming to her party and thus invited me and asked me to bring people to fill up the numbers, don't know if I will go or not. Its half seven the night of the party and I really should decide.
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10.28.2006, 02:34 PM	#11
sonik death bad moon rising Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: OUTAR SPAEC Posts: 198	You should get your own god damn girlfriend, and stop mooning after someone elses, you fucktard saddo! __________________ hello, generation eccch.
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10.28.2006, 10:59 PM	#12
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	you should go. you never know how the night will play out. __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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10.29.2006, 10:02 AM	#15
fishmonkey invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,670	go and get pissed, fuck em all. __________________ "Pescescimmia ha grandi bulbi oculari blu, ognuno attaccato su un lato della sua testa, in modo tale da risucire a guardare indietro senza girare la sua testa pesciosa"
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10.29.2006, 02:38 PM	#16
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	i ended up not going. we have a lot of history together, and i'm supposedly friends with her boyfriend althought she has never admitted he's her boyfriend (it's complicated like that); i thought about going and doing what !@#$%! suggested, since going to the party for an hour and leaving before her boyfriend would mean he "won" or something, but i thought i wouldn't have fun watching her be diplomatic with others and thinking i'd have to chat with people i didn't want to speak to. i'd rather party when i get her alone... i ended up going to a club with some other friends. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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10.29.2006, 02:55 PM	#17
atari 2600 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,212	Well, that probably sent a better message anyway to not go. You must be pretty bad off to seek advice from a bunch of "morons" like us hehee.
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10.29.2006, 04:38 PM	#18
Danny Himself invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 9,623	A class act all the way. claps
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