where to meet people who are date worthy - Page 7

wellcharge · 01.27.2010, 08:06 PM

after reading this thread i feel like i'd rather date rob or !@#$%! than phoenix or knox

:?

floatingslowly · 01.27.2010, 09:05 PM

why limit yrself to just one? I'm sure that they both want to pound yr ass.

and by both, I mean, Big Gay Rob and El Pito Loco.

static-harmony · 01.27.2010, 09:09 PM

He's the romantic type that's why flotz.

phoenix · 01.28.2010, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by wellcharge

after reading this thread i feel like i'd rather date rob or !@#$%! than phoenix or knox

:?

fine with me

chicka · 01.28.2010, 01:46 PM

sounds about right Nefeli, especially the many interests and friends. One of the on going problems when I was married is my wife had the friends but not the interests so she stayed home alot while I went out a couple of times a week to play sports and drink with guys. I tried my hardest to get her interested in something but no go. Now we're divorced she goes knitting once a week goes to the gym for yoga and a swim. All things I tried to get her interested in. ahaha

knox · 01.28.2010, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by phoenix

fine with me

well that says something doesn't it.

Genteel Death · 01.28.2010, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

are we also saying in this thread how we like the other to be?

recently, the core as i call it, of our company, had a more lets say serious discussion, than the usual blablbabla. it was about us and relationships.
btw it was a nice surpise that the rest of them are a step ahead of me. they consider the possibility of falling in love again not with terror as i do.
at the end i told them as a very rough summary, that what we want is
an awesome person (whatever awesome means for each of us- this can be a short or long list), with many interests, who is very busy, has many friends, is faithful and want us madly.

No, you are 1000 steps ahead of most people. The reason I am so weary of relationships is exactly because I don't want it to be the only point of existing for both of us, because, at least for myself, it would be a lie. That said, I still believe in the fact that if you meet the right person most things work out nicely. I just don't happen to have that many good examples around me. I'll explain better to you tomorrow.

pbradley · 01.28.2010, 03:35 PM

I don't think I would want someone that is very busy. I've had friends in relationships that, practically speaking, were comparable to pen pals sharing the same apartment.

Rob Instigator · 01.28.2010, 03:44 PM

a great relationship, true love, is overwhelming to near anything else you may want to do in life.

but it is worth it.

Rob Instigator · 01.28.2010, 03:47 PM

anyplace you can meet girls who are smart and like sonic youth, is a great place.

Keeping It Simple · 01.28.2010, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

anyplace you can meet girls who are smart and like sonic youth, is a great place.

Lunatic asylums?!

ilduclo · 01.28.2010, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

a great relationship, true love, is overwhelming to near anything else you may want to do in life.

but it is worth it.

not really should just be complimentary to who you are when not with the object of your affections.......

best place to meet women? Large bookstores or record stores. They will be browsing right in the same areas you are there to visit.

Also, concerts and art shows/galleries, again, they're there for the same reasons you are.........

Rob Instigator · 01.28.2010, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ilduclo

not really should just be complimentary to who you are when not with the object of your affections.......

shoulda coulda woulda

lots of things SHOULD be, but they rarely are.

ilduclo · 01.28.2010, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

shoulda coulda woulda

lots of things SHOULD be, but they rarely are.

pobrecito !

jon boy · 01.28.2010, 09:37 PM

hhhmmm let me see, date worthy? bus station!

demonrail666 · 01.28.2010, 09:48 PM

I've never quite understood the idea that galleries or book shops are great places to meet people. They're great places to see people you might like to go out with but the step from seeing a woman flicking through a book or looking at a painting that I like to trying to start a conversation with her about it seems like a very difficult and unnatural step to take, at least for me.

_slavo_ · 01.29.2010, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Genteel Death

No, you are 1000 steps ahead of most people. The reason I am so weary of relationships is exactly because I don't want it to be the only point of existing for both of us, because, at least for myself, it would be a lie.

A very fair point, I can only concur. Too bad not too many people think this way.

_slavo_ · 01.29.2010, 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

from our experience and at this age we have reached, we have noticed that almost all new people we got to hang around with (as friends, not only as sex partners), who didnt have some real good friends, we were finding out as we got to know them more that there was always smth wrong with them, their personality, character and behaviour with people.

yes, but not necessarily. my girlfriend for example, doesn't have as huge amount of friends as I happen to have, but her small group of friends are really REALLY close to her and can be more valuable than rather shallow friendships that most of mine are. she's not that type of a person who hangs around much and doesn't have that kind of a job that I have that involves being in contact with people a lot.

Genteel Death · 01.29.2010, 07:40 AM

Yeah, in my previous relationship I used to have to see his friends more than he liked to see mine. He always tried to find an excuse, and I think deep down it is because I do know some really smart people, which is bound to intimidate your other half, if they are insecure. It's all about quality, though, not quantity. Also, often someone who seems like a confident social animal can easily turn out to be a pussy, and rubbish in bed. Talking from experience only, I understand there are not rules as such for that sort of thing. Anyway, what I meant to explain with that post is that I can't deal with someone who makes me their only object of desire, it is too boring like that. Someone who has interests and goals of their own is cool. Chillax 'n all that.

EVOLghost · 01.29.2010, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

we were finding out as we got to know them more that there was always smth wrong with them, their personality, character and behaviour with people.
my syntax sucks big time up here..

I'd like to say....we're human beings.

01.27.2010, 08:06 PM	#121
wellcharge expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: cold and boring kanada Posts: 1,297	after reading this thread i feel like i'd rather date rob or !@#$%! than phoenix or knox :?
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01.27.2010, 09:05 PM	#122
floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,165	why limit yrself to just one? I'm sure that they both want to pound yr ass. and by both, I mean, Big Gay Rob and El Pito Loco.
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static-harmony invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: outside L.A Posts: 5,156	He's the romantic type that's why flotz. __________________
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01.28.2010, 01:46 PM	#125
chicka expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: wormtown MA Posts: 1,549	sounds about right Nefeli, especially the many interests and friends. One of the on going problems when I was married is my wife had the friends but not the interests so she stayed home alot while I went out a couple of times a week to play sports and drink with guys. I tried my hardest to get her interested in something but no go. Now we're divorced she goes knitting once a week goes to the gym for yoga and a swim. All things I tried to get her interested in. ahaha __________________ some men just want to watch the world burn
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01.28.2010, 03:35 PM	#128
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	I don't think I would want someone that is very busy. I've had friends in relationships that, practically speaking, were comparable to pen pals sharing the same apartment.
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01.28.2010, 03:44 PM	#129
Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,930	a great relationship, true love, is overwhelming to near anything else you may want to do in life. but it is worth it. __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,930	anyplace you can meet girls who are smart and like sonic youth, is a great place. __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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01.28.2010, 09:37 PM	#135
jon boy invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: psycho battery Posts: 12,161	hhhmmm let me see, date worthy? bus station! __________________ Sarcasm[A] is stating the opposite of an intended meaning especially in order to sneeringly, slyly, jest or mock a person, situation or thing \|@ <------- Euphoric brain cell just moments before expiration V _ \ / _ PING <-------- moments later / \ http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljhxq...isruo1_500.gif
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01.28.2010, 09:48 PM	#136
demonrail666 invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 18,509	I've never quite understood the idea that galleries or book shops are great places to meet people. They're great places to see people you might like to go out with but the step from seeing a woman flicking through a book or looking at a painting that I like to trying to start a conversation with her about it seems like a very difficult and unnatural step to take, at least for me.
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01.29.2010, 07:40 AM	#139
Genteel Death invito al cielo Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 8,744	Yeah, in my previous relationship I used to have to see his friends more than he liked to see mine. He always tried to find an excuse, and I think deep down it is because I do know some really smart people, which is bound to intimidate your other half, if they are insecure. It's all about quality, though, not quantity. Also, often someone who seems like a confident social animal can easily turn out to be a pussy, and rubbish in bed. Talking from experience only, I understand there are not rules as such for that sort of thing. Anyway, what I meant to explain with that post is that I can't deal with someone who makes me their only object of desire, it is too boring like that. Someone who has interests and goals of their own is cool. Chillax 'n all that.
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