When You Realize it is Best to be Friends...

SynthethicalY · 10.17.2007, 11:25 PM

Just break up. And continue on with the friendship or part ways?

I for one believe that friendship can ensue, but that may be naiveness on my part. However, I do believe I am mature enough that I won't get mad or sad if the other person is dating someone else.

Has any of you been in this situation? And what have you done?

Inhuman · 10.17.2007, 11:43 PM

This happened to me once, and we tried being friends, but didn't work due to awkwardness. We ended up getting back together for a little while then ended it with a fight. Friendship after is hard.

p.s: how are you doing man?

luxinterior · 10.17.2007, 11:44 PM

Who needs friends?

I prefer to just cut those people out of my life completely. It's over, you know?

cryptowonderdruginvogue · 10.17.2007, 11:46 PM

Yeah, i've been in that situation

Me and the ex were on and off, decided we could never be together
Took a 2 month break recently, got back together, and it wasn't the same
We haven't broken up, but we talk less and less as the days go by
I think I talked to her about 3 times last week, saw her once
etc.

Norma J · 10.17.2007, 11:47 PM

Depends what life you lead/live. Obviously a highschool studentd response will be different than a college kids response, or a store clerk, or a old married man, or a loner. Ya know?

davenotdead · 10.17.2007, 11:47 PM

stay togetherz for the kids...

SynthethicalY · 10.17.2007, 11:47 PM

I am doing good, just going through this phase as I mentioned above.

Silent Dan Speaks · 10.18.2007, 12:50 AM

Well, I'd say I'm still friends with every girl I've dated, so yeah, it's possible. Although I could just be lucky.

10.17.2007, 11:25 PM	#1
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Just break up. And continue on with the friendship or part ways? I for one believe that friendship can ensue, but that may be naiveness on my part. However, I do believe I am mature enough that I won't get mad or sad if the other person is dating someone else. Has any of you been in this situation? And what have you done?
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10.17.2007, 11:43 PM	#2
Inhuman invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Montreal Posts: 5,807	This happened to me once, and we tried being friends, but didn't work due to awkwardness. We ended up getting back together for a little while then ended it with a fight. Friendship after is hard. p.s: how are you doing man? __________________ Inhuman no longer dwells on here. http://about.me/robinbastien
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10.17.2007, 11:44 PM	#3
luxinterior invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Missouri, land of the free and home of the brave Posts: 2,351	Who needs friends? I prefer to just cut those people out of my life completely. It's over, you know? __________________ "I sweat like a fucking nun on Sunday...I don't even know what that means." - Sebastian Bach
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10.17.2007, 11:46 PM	#4
cryptowonderdruginvogue invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: the party Posts: 10,281	Yeah, i've been in that situation Me and the ex were on and off, decided we could never be together Took a 2 month break recently, got back together, and it wasn't the same We haven't broken up, but we talk less and less as the days go by I think I talked to her about 3 times last week, saw her once etc.
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Norma J invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Orstralia Posts: 4,917	Depends what life you lead/live. Obviously a highschool studentd response will be different than a college kids response, or a store clerk, or a old married man, or a loner. Ya know? __________________ I want girls with new-wave hair-doos
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davenotdead invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,784	stay togetherz for the kids... __________________
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10.18.2007, 12:50 AM	#8
Silent Dan Speaks the destroyed room Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 603	Well, I'd say I'm still friends with every girl I've dated, so yeah, it's possible. Although I could just be lucky.
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