[MellySingsDoom]

Seriously, that guy is not a friend of yours anymore. Get him (and her) out of your life. it's be painful and hurtful, but you have to look after yourself first of all, and you will find other people who willl love and respect you, and treat you right.

[This Is Not Here]

Hmmm, I'm not sure I want either of them out of my life, they are still both people I love very much, and Laura, the lady in question, is coming to the same university as me, so cold shouldering her isn't gonna happen. At the end of the day, they do have a RIGHT to be together. But then again, they have a RESPONSIBILITY of tact and consideration to their friends, and that seems to have been blatantly overlooked.

[MellySingsDoom]

Hmm, I've come dangerously close to dishing out advice here (not a good idea on the interspazz)...I accept what you say about Laura & your mate. You obviously have a lot of feelings for them both (espesh Laura), and be around them a lot (which sounds like you are at the moment) must be emotionally draining. Maybe you should step back a little bit from them, to give them "space" (judging by your mates inferences to you), and much more importantly, give some space to yourself. By the sounds of it, you've got a lot of feelings stuff w/them to work out for yourself....

[Cantankerous]

my advice:

just roll with it. go with the flow.


no, you don't want my advice.

[This Is Not Here]

You're absolutely spot on there, adn since I had to endure them canoodling last week I left resolving to not see them for quite some time, I need to sort my own headspace out and I'd hate to 'taint' anything further, y'know. I will be seeing them tonight as we're Slimelighting it, it'll be difficult. but I won't pass up partying because of them. Apart from tonight I don't wish to see Laura until we start university. The time apart from them has done me good, and I am feeling a bit happier in the past week.

[This Is Not Here]

Why don't I want your advice Cantankerous, I'd love your advice! Advice me woman!!

[MellySingsDoom]

Cantankers - Harry The Wisdom Cat is required for his wise words.

TINH - I'm glad that you're feeling happier, sir, and that you're giving yourself space and stuff. Gives you more time to spend on here, too

BTW - I've FINALLY started working out the Primal Scream song. I've prety much worked out the chord sequence, just need to sort out the note picking stuff. Will find a proper gtr tab program, so I can then tab it up for you.

[This Is Not Here]

Ha ha, thats great stuff, thankyou very much!

[Trasher02]

Love fucking sucks..

[Cantankerous]

Originally Posted by This Is Not Here

Why don't I want your advice Cantankerous, I'd love your advice! Advice me woman!!

because it's probably bad

my advice would be to do whatever you want. just roll with it. go with the flow. etc. whatever happens is inevitable.

[atsonicpark]

I have none. The worst thing that ever happened was a girl cheated on me. It was then that I was convinced I should never get too bent out of shape over a girl... because as much as I love someone, they probably won't ever love me back.

I've been with the same girl for 5 1/2 years... if she broke up with me, it'd suck, but I'd move on. It's just a girl. I don't understand people who blow their brains out over a girl. My uncle killed himself because his wife cheated on him. Fuck that. There are so many important things in life worth living for other than that. I love her but I love a lot of things and things change all the time -- so if her feelings for me change, then I'll have to accept it.

There's really no excuse for CHEATING though...

^^^
I agree with you, but surely there are more unstable persons who could easily get disturbed after they get dumped or something and loose the focus on all the other (important) things. and if these persons dont have good freinds/family which can help them bringing back the focus...yes suicide will be an option
(btw I am not speaking about me)

[This Is Not Here]

They're never "just girls" though. A girlfriend is essentially your best freind, so when that falls apart, they cheat on you, it stings, as it would with any best freind.

[atsonicpark]

No, my best friend isn't my girlfriend. It's a dude, and I have no sexual attraction to him. In fact, my girlfriend is probably # 3 or # 4 on my top friends really.

And I've learned that I'd rather marry music than my girlfriend.

She is just a girl. No reason to get bent out of shape. Feelings change all the time. Why let it ruin or end my life? It's not that I don't care; I'm just indifferent. But my life is better because I'm not obsessed with it.

[Cantankerous]

Originally Posted by Trasher02

Love fucking sucks..

if i wasn't already attached
and if i was in belgium

i'd totally prove you wrong.

[This Is Not Here]

Originally Posted by atsonicpark

And I've learned that I'd rather marry music than my girlfriend.

 

"I do"

"You may KISS THE BRIDE!"

[Trasher02]

Damn woman!
Well love is pretty much ruining my life at the moment. I hate it when things don't go like you'd want them to you know, fuckin story of my life.

Ah and shit my head is killing me

[atsonicpark]

I dunno.

Once you've been dating the same person for a 4th of your life (and the fact that I've been dating, period, in soem form or another, for almost half of my life)........ it gets kinda.. boring.

[Trasher02]

Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I dunno.

Once you've been dating the same person for a 4th of your life (and the fact that I've been dating, period, in soem form or another, for almost half of my life)........ it gets kinda.. boring.

Adam, I really envy the relationship you've got with your girlfriend. You guys make a cute couple.

[Danny Himself]

Originally Posted by Cantankerous

uh, yeah, hey

Last time I saw it, your hair was black. And before that it was blonde. NO THX