it is hard. For some reason, most people don't seem to trust a person who will not drink, which is flat out STUPID, but it seems to be the case.
It takes me a while to break through to them, and to get them to let their guard down around me. Once they get over the whole "he is not drinking he must be a narc or a psycho" thing then they ease up and everyone has a great time.
why is it that people do not trust someone who either cannot or does not want to inbibe poison?
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