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Originally Posted by Savage Clone

I think common ground on aesthetics is very important. I would hate to be one of those married couples where the husband has a small room in the basement that's his little "lair," and is the only place where his interests and personality can be manifested in a house where it's nothing but cozies and doilies everywhere else. I have seen this scenario time and again, and it weirds me out every time.

yes! Exactly!!