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@DB - well, yeah, sociopaths and psychopaths about in modern society and if anything they're often enabled by technological tools. take something like facebook-- it's a stalker's paradise!

in anything, society tends to reward sociopaths because we want "results" over the means to achieve them. so those who exploit and manipulate others to "win" are seen as heroes as long as they keep "winning."

this doesn't meant that all sadists always win however-- as you've noticed they may have self-destructive and other irrational impulses that lead them nowhere. and yes, sometimes nice guys finish first. but of course the loons are out there, and it's best to keep your wits about you when it comes to that.

most people, in fact, are irrational. many people are addicted to their nightmares. they'll rather stay in them because sanity is an unknown that makes them uncomfortable.

anyway, i hope you can land another job before you flee this one? best wishes with whatever happens.