[chicka]

All that matters is how do you feel about her? If you really love her the kid isn't going to matter you're going to love him too because he's part of her world and you know he comes with it. Kids can be frustrating at times but the joy they can bring always out weights the frustration. I realize it's early and "love" isn't in the cards yet till you figure out a bunch of shit but let's face it we pretty much know in 10 minutes of meeting someone if we could fall for them seriously or we just want to pound sand and move on.........