[against_the_grain]

Alot of the problem lies in the fact that people don't stand back and see their behavior for what it is....they don't consider temperament, they're just driven to defend and exacerbate their obnoxiousness. I hate to say its seems a human reaction that's so prevalent....and the meek or introspective types who try to improve seem overshadowed by the boorishness of agro-kids....and adults !

The energy of youth is misdirected and you'd hope one would learn earlier than later...but we ALL gotta learn....it's ongoing.