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Originally Posted by notyourfiend

a very long post

yeah, you should never ask advice from the interwebs; then again, i love to dish out patronizing jeremiads.

so--long story short--throw your friend a pity party. it's what she wants.

and don't butt into other people's lives-- no, you're not an asshole for thinking about what you're thinking of doing, but let your friend be the passive dishrag she has chosen to be and learn to be a grownup or end up in the psychiatric ward.

i mean, some people really trip on being total pussies. and i don't mean pussy in the sexy, juicy, bright pink yummy way, no... i mean it here in the way the other people think about it.