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Originally Posted by phoenix
I've tried, but I can't get into it because he keeps telling me off and gets angry.  |
He sounds like a dickwad.
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Originally Posted by pbradley
Actually, no. I figured my comment was pretty innocuous in how self-evidently obligatory the sentiment was. You could have simply explained that the problem had progressed past the luxury of privacy.
Instead, you've opted for the typical SYG passive-aggression of devaluing my comments as predictable attention-seeking.
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Go away, you're being stupid and annoying.
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Originally Posted by satan
yeah but if there's no passion or spark or anything what is it other than a very close friendship? part of the reason we've lasted this long is because we want to fuck each other 24/7.
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See, that's one of the problems with modern American marriage. You will never have a passionate spark for someone for 40 or 50 years, not the same way you do when you're first together, but it's the friendship and loyalty that makes a relationship last into unimaginable lengths of time. And it's much more meaningful and powerful, just in a different way. Your spark is going to fade gradually. That's just the way it is. Hopefully there will be a smoldering ember to keep your relationship going if it's important to you.
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Originally Posted by phoenix
this thread isn't about how much I love my other half. It's just about sex.
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Yeah, true