1. Do you think you are ugly? No.
2. If you do, do you give a flyin fuk?
Long, long ago I worried I was unattractive. Even in those awkward teenage days, I didn't think I was "ugly" though.
3. Define ugly in terms of physical appearance and/or the person within.
Burn victims are not physically attractive, though that's of course a tragedy. Beauty within has to do with being a "good" person, and "good" is just as hard to define as beauty, but we all know what it means.
4. Do you judge a book by it's cover?
I'm seriously trying to be less judgmental in general. Just agreed with my therapist an hour ago that I'm succeeding and don't need to schedule a return visit at the moment. However, sure all the time, I make an opinion based on what I see first. I'd be a liar if I said otherwise, though a good looking liar. It's rarely the only opinion I make though, unless of course, I never read the book.
5. Do you feel sympathy for someone you perceive as very ugly?
Burn victims, yes definitely, assholes, no not at all.
6. Do feel a bit jealous when you see someone you perceive as more attractive than you?
Yes, but it's always women. I can't think of a male I think is more attractive than me, but I find many women to be so, and wish I could be like them. When I was drunk with my wife in the strip club she had just started working at (on her night off), I told her, "You're the girl I've always wanted to be!" and we both realized this was entirely true.
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