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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom
yeah, I'm trying to get into that love the one you're with thing.
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That's a girl thing, you want more male perspective
Don't try and love anyone. LIKE the one you're with and leave it at that. Love is an art not a skill. It either is there or its not. It will develop on its own terms or it won't, but "trying" to love really is doomed to fail. Ive always noticed myself that women tend to fluctuate with love whereas for most men ive known love is permanent, no fluctuations. That is why often we see that its women who break of relationships where "they were in love" and ive known too many men with sincerely broken hearts. If anything its probably why so many men become assholes to women, retaliation.