Originally Posted by Derek
Cause it was like 8 years ago and I barely even remember it. Who cares, get over it!! If I had done it last week I would be more likely to apologise cause I'm much nicer now and don't get anything out of hurting people's feelings anymore. The fact that louder's held some grudge all this time when I haven't even thought about him at any point and yet I'm somehow expected to play nice and say sorry in 2019 is nonsense. We've all had our beefs and tiffs online, who apologises for it? You can dislike me all you want but it seems like displaced energy when I don't really have an opinion on either of you! We hardly know each other even.
I don’t dislike you, but honestly, how hard is it to just be like, “Hey, I’m sorry, that was mean”? Not hard. Super easy. Just did it.
Point is you’re kinda being an asshole again by saying “Yeah, but that was like forever ago so get over it.” Apologizing and actually being nicer is by far the easiest response option.
But do what you want. It’s just weird. I’d feel pretty terrible if someone told me I fucked them up with some attention-grabbing internet comments my dumb kid ass made to look cool. It’s not his fault he feels bad just because the passage of time is a thing. It’s still your fault for being an asshole, and making excuses just invites more talk. Quickest way to put a lid on it is to stop and be cool.
But hey, you do you.