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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
fuck.
i was gonna say, but didn’t wanna say, but since it was said, well... shit
how come?
and what does the kid say? he’s gotta be the only reasonable one among the 4 of you right now.
psychiatrists are full of shit sometimes. not to get all scientology on you but headshrinks are often mad themselves. trust me, i’ve seen many. i’d get a second opinion before proceeding.
eta: also psychiatrists are all about medication these days. i’d see a specialist in marriage things.
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After 20 years of monumental ups and downs, I believe that we both came to the correct conclusion. Our son is growing up in a house where his parents seem like strangers to each other. We haven't had "the talk" with our son yet. I'm dreading it. But I'm also very happy with how she and I are proceeding with the practical matters: We sell our big beautiful house this summer, make a shitload, split it right down the middle, find new (much more modest) houses for each other, near each other, not far from the current house, and our son splits his time with each of us. Sometimes the 3 of us will do things: dinner, special trips, etc.