A lot of women feel let down because now they're expected to be successful professionally and make lots of money, to be educated, to be excellent modern devoted mothers always updated with the latest how-to-raise-your-child studies, intelligent & hard-working, sexually active (and by that read: always willing to act like a porn star and never say no (mood killer)), following fashion trends, pretty, nails done, make up done, always perfect waxing and brazilian (no excuses), THIN (go to the gym, read, exercise and eat the healthy stuff at all times) also HAPPY, SMILY and NURTURING. She must never complain (after all, women got their rights now SHUT UP about it), she must never be unhappy (isn't that a sign of weakness? didn't you women wanna be strong now? now prove it), pretend she doesn't feel there's sexism AND keep the house clean.
again, I ask, WHO expects this of women? Is it the women themselves? Is it their husbands? Is it the MAN? is it society? Is it Oprah?
I mean, this is fairly extreme knox. the only men out there who expect their woman never to complain are either dleusional idiots or wife-beating assholes. If you happen to think that is most men, then that's YOUR issue.
I would venture 90% of the men on this forum give not a flying FUCK about whether a woman follows the styles, or is perfectly made up or any of that bullshit.
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