my wife enjoys anime almost as much as I do and so we watch....a lot.
I've felt guilty about downloading horriblesubs, so we've been stuck with what Netflix has to offer.
This brings me to Black Butler.
Each time, it goes like this:
Me: wow....that's SO gay.
Her: you don't like it. I know you don't like it.
Me: I just told you again that I do, it's just really gay sometimes. Like...really.
Her: you don't like it, we can change it.
Me: .......we're watching it.
Her:
She likes it. It's also really really gay.