children have specific times where certain imprints are made in their brain, and these imprints shape behavior for the rest of one's life.
sometimes these imprints halp fixate the combination of food urge with the sexual urge.
Other times the sexual imprint is combined with pain, or scatological experience.
this is not to say that anyone who likes painful sex was imprinted thus, but that there are people who cannot have regular sex, not because they choose not to, but because their brain will not arouse at regular sex, unless pain, food/scat/humiliation is involved.
there is a difference betwene someone who likes to play act submission and someone who cannot get any sexual release UNLESS there is submission involved./
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