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Originally Posted by Nefeli
i have guilts about 2 things in my life and one is about her. not seeing her much the last years even though she lived across my place. i will never forgive myself for that.
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That really really sucks. And as far as I know, the only way to get rid of the guilt is to forgive yourself. I'm told that's a difficult trick to pull off.
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Originally Posted by Bytor Peltor
Talked with my mom earlier and my Grandfather is doing about the same today......and we wait.
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Ug. More sucking. There really is a huge difference between quality of life and quantity, isn't there? After a point, is one more day a blessing or just a burden?
Anyway, our situations may be different, but everyone felt tremendous relief when she passed and yesterday's funeral was actually a fairly joyous occasion. I hope your family finds the same comforting closure.
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Lesson I learned: How to get over fear of death? Live nine decades.