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Originally Posted by artsygrrl
Maybe, maybe not. Most people with half a brain eventually get around to thinking about their own destiny. Some things are within your realm, some things are predestined. Those who live in the here-and-now will have to grow up at some point.
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my half a brain does not want to spoil the surprise.
whatever i wanted to be doing now that i had planned has changed.
all the changes were for the best.
when i was younger i used to think that making long term plans would help and prevent things. i was wrong.
so the more i grow up, the more i want to keep an open mind about everything.
and that way i guess less anxiety, frustration and more happiness.
so before you use your patronizing tone, you might wanna consider that people are different.
for me, the planning approach doesn't work. I am much too spontaneous and dynamic. The best things that have ever happened to me were by surprise and I think that is because I am not afraid of change and I can spot opportunities.
I feel too confined and unhappy within the boundaries of plans, instead I dream of unexpected changes. which happen to me all the time.
the less fear i have, the less plans i have the more good things happen to me. i like it like that.
the more i grow up the more i learn to live with uncertainties.