I fall on both sides of the spectrum too, but in my case I find the beard sometimes frustrating. Believe or not, a lot of guys tell me I should grow one (easy for me, I grow one easily and try keeping it tidy the best I can) but I am not obsessed with ideas of virility the way your average gay man is. I like my men to also be manly and clean-shaven, a look that seems to have gone mostly out of fashion for gays in London in the past 5 years or so. It was refreshing to get off wit a dude last weekend who wasn't impressed by my current beard-state.
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