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Originally Posted by ploesj
yep, total strangers on the street, i would pass them and they'd go all 'oh god, she's hideous!' to each other
once someone drove past me, rolled his car window down and yelled: 'ewwww!! ugly!'. i was fifteen or sixteen.
this stuff still happens fairly often, apparently i'm pretty to some and hideous to others, but i'm fine with how i look now and the people whose opinion i care about don't agree with the ugly part  so yeah! |
Personally, I've noticed people do that to women when they are not TRYING hard to be attractive. They seem to take it personally for some reason, if you don't care enough to try and be pretty for them to look at. People seem to think that's a woman's obligation and if you don't care there's a certain resentment towards you. Specially other women, oh God.
I can't tell you how many times girls have told my boyfriends "But how come you're with her? She's all sloppy". And then you pluck your eyebrows or dye your hair or something and people go like uuuuuuuuuuh pretty.
(because you're trying FOR THEM).
For some reason, I think this is like people who do not like cats because they don't do tricks to amuse you.
But I don't know. I'm under a lot of stress right now and had way too much coffee and trouble today.
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