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you cannot really win any argument you would start over the issue. Let it run its course. Sadly or otherwise, she will either let it ruin yr relationship, or not. I have mixed feelings on whether or not a partners opinion counts in 'friend' making, because it can be difficult to get the message across to either and it is hard to know truely how the other person sees them.. honestly, i've always tried to be very blunt about my intolerance of bs starting to either friends or partners if they happen to say anything offensive. If yr other half is
unable to do that, it is something yot need to deal with or move on. Neither of them will probably change, the best i'd hope for is that the friend does get bored with trashing yot out and finds something else to do. You'll never win by telling your girlfriend that her friend is idiotic. It doesn't work that way. Keep yr mouth shut, but make it clear you dislike the behaviour. *shrug*
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