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Originally Posted by Derek
We are both nearly 17, and this is both our first relationships that's lasted more than a month or whatever. And I understand the importance of her having friends.. but she also abides by this one friend and says she's "lonely" and it's her only resort. And even though I've told her to hang out with the people she talks to, she makes up lame excuses not to.
Yes, at the start of our relationship there was some drama and this friend is what she used to comfort herself. And that is a part of the problem, this friend has only seen a bad side to our relationship (and a part of the relationship that happened months ago) and has not heard of any of the good things. I've told her friend this though and she doesn't believe me.
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(collective sigh from the older SYG crowd)
ohh my poor young friend. women take a long time to evolve from young girls to women, and in the process, they change completely. Unless you can roll with the punches, yr in for a head and heart ache