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Originally Posted by Genteel Death
Plus there's the way people generally communicate online about these things, which doesn't require much effort in terms of appearing like you are actually being receptive to minutiaes that might be of great importance to the guy/girl you are chatting to, so a whole chunk of what constitutes a conversation with a stranger in the flesh (albeit one you have some interest in getting to know better) is missing. I do believe that if it's just a sex thing it can totally work more often than a relationship hunt, though.
By looks being important on my other post I didn't mean that one has to be necessarily good looking in a conventional way, that is something subjective to the physical requirements the person who's trying to get off with someone online demands, and those requirements vary from person to person.
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The amount of information or reality youre getting from someone depends on how much effort you're both putting it.
Everything you've said I agree with. Looks are totally important, in a completely individual way. ood looks that appeal to a broad population mean nothing if they don't appeal to the person you're interested in.