if you love your brother and want to help continue to love your brother, and do all you can to express that love within balance, and above all follow your heart.. if you have to go all out, go all out.. if you have to let him get burned a bit by the fire he is starting, let it burn..
do what
you feel you have to do because that is ALL you can do, because to repeat what EVERYONE has said, your brother is in fact a grown ass man, and is responsible for himself..
BUT..
everyone needs help, especially those grownups who are fucking up continually, and if nobody ever helped anyone simply because they were fucking up, well shit nobody would ever get any help to begin with would they?
remember, that while your brother is responsible for himself, we are all responsible for each other, especially within family.. nobody ever was successful on their own, it takes the help of human interactions, in other words, those of us who are succeeding have ALL had a break in one way or another, and if you can, do all that you can to give your brother that break he needs.
This requires spiritual, emotional and to an extent physical support. Provide all of the above that you are able, in the exact order. After all, in order for your brother to become a successful, "normal" person again, people are going to have to treat him like a normal person, and give him the love and attention they give to each other under normal circumstances..
Love covers a multitude of sins.
I pray it works out for the best..
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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
now if youre intent on saving him, and have the means, you could have him declared mentally incompetent and become his guardian. that would take a lot of lawyering and money, is my guess. but who knows. contact a social worker, maybe? they know about this shit.
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I think that is a little extreme for the circumstances..