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Your Existing Situation
Readily participates in things affording excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated.
Your Stress Sources
Disappointment and unfulfilled hopes have given rise to an anxious uncertainty, while doubts that things will be any better in the future lead to the postponement of essential decisions. This conflict between hope and necessity is creating considerable pressure. Instead of resolving this by facing up to making the essential decisions, he is likely to immerse himself in the pursuit of trivialities as an escape route
Your Restrained Characteristics
Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity but is inclined to be emotionally withdrawn, which prevents him from becoming deeply involved.
Your Desired Objective
Feels he has been unjustly and undeservedly treated and betrayed in his hopes. Disgruntled and in revolt against his existing circumstance which he considers an affront.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He tries to escape from this by withdrawing and protecting himself with an attitude of cautious reserve. Moody and depressed.
Your Actual Problem #2
Failure to establish himself in a manner consonant with his own high opinion of his worth, combined with the continued effort to prove himself with inadequate resources, have resulted in considerable stress. Tries to escape from these excessive demands on his meager reserves by adopting a defensive attitude in which he refuses to be committed, or to be involved in further unpleasantness.
wow.. that sums me up completely.
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