[MellySingsDoom]

Hmm, I've come dangerously close to dishing out advice here (not a good idea on the interspazz)...I accept what you say about Laura & your mate. You obviously have a lot of feelings for them both (espesh Laura), and be around them a lot (which sounds like you are at the moment) must be emotionally draining. Maybe you should step back a little bit from them, to give them "space" (judging by your mates inferences to you), and much more importantly, give some space to yourself. By the sounds of it, you've got a lot of feelings stuff w/them to work out for yourself....