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Originally Posted by sarramkrop

Maybe you could plan little revenges on them by making things go a little erroneous, so that the stress that they cause you is in part redirected to them.

I think that there are alos a few books about how to get back at your boss/es if they are being arseholes to you.

no, no no!

passive-aggressive revenge does not profit. any sensible revenge must profit you. period.

disengage from the drama & think strategically-- how can you profit from the situation? how can you end up better than you started? that is all...

example: currently i am dealing with a management company that has been sleeping on their ass with regards to the house im renting. sure i could "damage the house" as my little revenge-- but why? and what for? i still have to live in it. instead i called the city, got in touch with a lawyer, got advice, called the actual property owner (whom the company is managing for) and i'm putting the lawsuit & "rent abatement" gun to their heads to get them off their asses. all perfectly legal and the law is on my side. how do i benefit? i get prompt repairs & upgrades to the place where i'm living and potential money savings if they don't.

of course i didn't always act like that. i used to get pissed off and think "one day you'll pay" without putting any thought into my actions. i hated my jobs etc. so eventually i'd get fired/booted out/broke/bitter like pennsylvania.

i'm just saying here-- consider strategy before emotion. it pays better.