i try to always speak my mind, but it's taken me years to learn to say things without putting people down, pissing them off, etc. sure, it's their problem if they are insecure and they need constant reassurance, but still, i have learned to be social & couch my true thoughts under a thin veneer of diplomacy. something i certainly don't do here where i simply tell people to fuck off. isn't the internet wonderful?
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