my gf and i came from the same scene (hardcore/emo/indie scene that is long gone), so we knew each other years before we dated (she didn't really like me at all, but i was an asshole to her, long story). but we met again when i was nyc and we bonded over the boredoms, rush and the movie i'm not there. she's not the biggest sonic youth or black flag or minor threat fan, but that's okay. she also loves fleetwood mac. so we do have some differences in pop culture. i guess i'm trying to say that it's best to have some commonground, at least for me it is. i tried dating a girl (like i mentioned before) who was vastly different than me and liked only stuff on the radio and popular movies and stupid tv shows and i couldn't stand her after a bit. anyway, most "regular" girls find me a little weird to try to hook up with me.
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