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Originally Posted by luxinterior
But she says the most inane shit to me sometimes, like "Rebecca, if I were as skinny as you, I would be much more flirtatious than you are right now. I don't know why you don't have a boyfriend, like, all the time." How do I explain to her that the differences between the two of us, as far as physical appearance is concerned, are really not the issue here? We are not so different in that area that it would result in one of us having all the luck and the other having none. In this case, it is really about personality. Mine turns most people off. Hers does not. She makes guys feel like they are needed. I probably make them feel the opposite. And so on. I mean, there is a reason why she has never gone without having a boyfriend, and why she has had something like 30 of them in the past 5 years. I just wish she could see below the surface of things. She thinks I'm really fucked up, anyway.
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Hehe a lot of my friends used to say almost the same things to me in terms of being able to pick up guys, but the simple fact is that I have never gone out to pick up, it just always seemed so stupid/meaningless to me. But I have nothing against others doing that, each to their own etc.