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Originally Posted by sarramkrop

You shouldn't put pressure on yourself to get into a relationship. They only make you feel better if they are a natural consequence of two people feeling better when they stand side by side, but they are not the cause of all happiness. You are quite young and handsome, plus you seem possessed by a wisdom that is rare in even most adults, so there is plenty going on for you, there. It is natural for you to feel like you should be out experimenting with your own sexuality, but that time will come sooner than you think.

yes, but there is such thing as premature wisdom. alex just needs a good manhug. and there is no substitute for that, is it? the body is the body is the body. im not suggesting anything raunchy here, by the way. but at 16 one needs to be someone's boyfriend, without being too serious. just saying. from my own hetero perspective, i totally understand the yearning & unease-- damn!! being a teenager sucked. except for the good parts, of course.