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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
oh. well again hm in these matters i think the vibe you put out is more important than pure looks (there is no such thing as "pure" looks). of course people who act phony just to make themselves what they think is more attractive in the eyes of others are vomitory and should be shot. for me personality+brains are #1 definitely but that's not the case for most men---but then most men are idiots and i'm not their spokesman-- i'm just a weirdo-- just... be patient i guess? quality >> quantity when it comes to meeting people anyway.
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well i it's hard to say what my personality is like, i guess again im just like Enid Coleslaw. I'm an art student(i study photography), im funny and creative and i love music, I have lots of friends so i think im okay. deep down im not very happy. i dont think this comes across to people though.
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Originally Posted by nicfit
Looks like this thread is turning into a "support dumped nice girls club,if you will" thing.
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like that such a loss to the board. and i never said i was dumped, i was cheated on.
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Originally Posted by gmku
Men are scum. You don't deserve that--especially the cheated on part.
Is that part of single life, though? I remember when I was single, unless my dating partner and I were really getting serious, that I was always a bit unsure if my partner dating another guy was considered okay in the single world, or if it was cheating. If you're committed, e.g., living together or talking about marriage, etc., that's one thing, of course--cheating's definitely out. But what are the supposed rules when you're dating? I never really did figure it out--and there were plenty of times in that status where I also got cheated on, and even in those cases where we hadn't reached the "serious" stage, it still hurt pretty bad to find out that the person you were interested in obviously wasn't interested enough in you to be exclusive.
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I know that eventually i will meet some one thats right for me blah blah blah blah blah. But for now it all just seems like bullshit, All men i know are assholes who like anorexic women and even treat them like shit. And even if they were more attracted to curvy girls they would still date stick insects to fit in. You see here, its hip and cool to be an asshole and treat girls like shit.