Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
You cannot choose that which has not either been conceived of by you, or provided to you by others.
you forgot a big one, which is when the options presented to you are utter shit, and you can't come up with an alternative on your own: do some research and seek out new options. that's the force behind human learning. from going to the library to doing your own experiments-- the unsatisfied need not be stuck in narrow perspectives.
pain is good feedback.