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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
Our sexual nature comes from somewhere....
we are not born wanting to be humiliated are we?
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sex=power
It is power over another person, and it is power over yourself. You have power when you abstain or restrain your sexuality, even if temporarily (i.e. why people can't just start fucking or jacking off on the bus or at the water cooler at work). There is a time and place. Further, there is varying etiquette, but more or less all sex is power. We give people power over us to be pleasured, and in the same instance we have power over them while we pleasure them. For example, oral sex seems to some to be "degrading" and yet to others, to be the giver is to have that power over a person, while at the same time the person receiving probably equally feels a bit of power.
Violence is a form of asserting power. Some people are always on a power trip, so they are either violent or sometimes just promiscuous, but either way, they are even if subconsciously searching for opportunities to express and assert power.
Me? I'm a spiritualist, sex is about a higher power. It is about a higher connection. If its not? You're just kidding yourself and its just masturbation with a partner
