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Originally Posted by fugazifan
beyond whether someone cheats or not, this discourse of "allowing" or "not allowing" is quite appalling. who gave anyone the right to "allow" someone to do anything?
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Agree. Totally. Which is why problems are bound to come as a result of someone saying "I don't want you to hang out with them". Of course, like I always say, there are exceptions to every rule. I would prefer my girlfriend not hang out with a recent ex unless I am present, but even then it's not an "yr allowed" or "not allowed" sort of thing. it's one of those sort of things I consider a: at least they are being honest and telling me, and b: I should be allowed to do the same thing if the situation ever brings itself up. I don't believe in ownership of one human being by another. I don't care how much you love someone, you never "belong" to someone else. In the same regard, as soon as you think someone else belongs to you, the "relationship" has already failed. Trust and honesty are the key to most things.