I'm very comfortable with it, but only because I think trust is important. Also, if someone is capable of shady behavior, the quickest way to find out is by allowing them to hang out with people of the opposite sex. not allowing them to, if they want to, will cause problems within itself. That's been my experience. I allow my girlfriend (and past girlfriends) to hang out with basically anyone they want, and I expect to be allowed the same in return. Of course, we are sexual creatures and thoughts will be there regardless. EVERYONE thinks about cheating....not doing so is what makes one great and trustworthy in my opinion.
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