[ann ashtray]

Women (generally speaking) tend to dig men that have succeeded at something. Artsy girls tend to dig boys in bands, etc (esp. if whatever given band is actually playing gigs). I find that (seemingly/generally...) artsy boys are intimidated by girls in bands..at least when it comes to actually approaching them in some sort of romantic way.

I also find that if women (again...generally speaking) can't find a boy whose managed to succeed at something, settling for someone that at least offers the allure of success can be satisfactory. ..like some jackass that thinks he's hot shit because he drives a '96 Mustang or has parents willing to let him borrow the Mercedes/wears expensive clothes his parents/other girlfriends buy him.

Basically, almost everyone is a fucking idiot.

There are DRASTIC differences between the sexes that go far beyond genitalia. And even though I see this SLOWLY changing over time, these differences are indeed still there and likely always be on some level.

Whenever I encounter a woman with a strong "hunter/gatherer" mentality (which is often), it seems to be more out of necessity than anything else.

That said, men do seem to be becoming lazier than what we used to be....again, again...generally speaking.

And as a final side note, I love Rob's post. He seems to have some serious ability to observe what is there, as opposed to what he wants to be there.