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_slavo_ 02.11.2010 04:38 AM

Okay, another one today. Wish me luck.

_slavo_ 02.11.2010 05:59 AM

thanks dear.

SONIC GAIL 02.11.2010 09:27 AM

Best of luck to you.

_slavo_ 02.11.2010 04:05 PM

thanks, i did well!

SONIC GAIL 02.11.2010 04:07 PM

Well done. I have presentations and shit all the time. I used to get nervous, now i just kind of bull shit my way through everything. Gets easier over time.

_slavo_ 02.11.2010 04:33 PM

how old are you and for how long have you been doing this thing?

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 02.11.2010 05:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _slavo_
Oh shit, how I hate presenting in front of like 15 people.

I hope I'll survive next 2 hours.

Cross yr fingers for me people.


15 only? that is cake! don't be so nervous, you will only scare yourself. be an optimist.. a presentation is an opportunity for you to communicate and collaborate with a room full of peers/professionals/students who will benefit from your persuasive expertise.. I love to present/teach/lecture it is the most fun i ever have, and I am so terribly shy it is unbelievable, except when it comes to presenting, though I used to be equally afraid of public speaking until I just did enough presentations in college to get over it. Now I am a teacher!

SONIC GAIL 02.12.2010 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _slavo_
how old are you and for how long have you been doing this thing?


I'll be 32 this year. I am an Interior Designer at a furniture dealership, so I have to do alot of sales and design with my job. I started college when I was 18 and with design it is all about the presentations. All of our homework inviolved making design boards tyhen presenting them to the class and teacher. It was nerve wracking at first, but as I learned more about what I was doing it became easier. Now I just spew it all out without really thinking about it. I think it is something you adapt to over time. I just act like I'm talking to my husband and it's no big deal. When you build it upo in yr head it tends to make you more nervous. I like it.

What do you do? Media or something like that?

_slavo_ 02.18.2010 02:07 AM

Yes, another one today. I hope I'll do fine.

_slavo_ 02.18.2010 04:32 AM

I'm gooooooooooooooooooooooood :)

_slavo_ 02.23.2010 03:16 AM

Another one today, wish me luck as usual.

pokkeherrie 02.23.2010 03:57 AM

good luck!!!


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(KOKOT!) :) :D :eek: :cool:

_slavo_ 02.23.2010 04:34 AM

thanks, you VYJEBANY KOKOT SKURVENY POKKEHERRIE.

:) :)

anyways, sorry for these spams, but you know ... I'm a man of rituals.

I did well today, I almost wasn't nervous. Coffee, Redbull and a bar of chocolate did its job.

SONIC GAIL 02.23.2010 10:37 AM

Well done I say...well done

_slavo_ 03.12.2010 02:33 AM

Another one coming up in half an our...I hope I'll do well today.

_slavo_ 03.12.2010 04:43 AM

Yeah baby, no problems whatsoever.

_slavo_ 03.12.2010 04:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SONIC GAIL
What do you do? Media or something like that?


Yes, I work in a media agency, we prepare media campaign proposals for our clients and then execute the media buying proces when the client has approved our proposals.
It involves a lot of direct communication with the client. I have no problems talking to them on the phone, even in a very relaxed/non-formal way (which I have found out works much better than being too formal) but face-to-face meetings with the clients have been a big issue for me for quite a time, since I'm naturally quite a shy person. But as I move on forwards and have more experience, I see the presentations being less of a problem for me over time. Of course, I have my rituals (a bar of chocolate to calm me down, and a strong coffee to give me a bit of a kick), but I can deal with it now much better than I used to.
which is absolutely fucking GREAT, since I had thought before that battling this kind of social anxiety would be an unsolvable task.

SONIC GAIL 03.12.2010 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _slavo_
Yes, I work in a media agency, we prepare media campaign proposals for our clients and then execute the media buying proces when the client has approved our proposals.
It involves a lot of direct communication with the client. I have no problems talking to them on the phone, even in a very relaxed/non-formal way (which I have found out works much better than being too formal) but face-to-face meetings with the clients have been a big issue for me for quite a time, since I'm naturally quite a shy person. But as I move on forwards and have more experience, I see the presentations being less of a problem for me over time. Of course, I have my rituals (a bar of chocolate to calm me down, and a strong coffee to give me a bit of a kick), but I can deal with it now much better than I used to.
which is absolutely fucking GREAT, since I had thought before that battling this kind of social anxiety would be an unsolvable task.



Yeah one day you'll just be spewing out words without even thinkin about it. Strangely I am more nervous about phone calls than meetings face to face. I tend to make shit harder than it really needs to be.

_slavo_ 03.29.2010 01:21 AM

Another one today, this time a very important one. I hope I'll do well.

stu666 03.29.2010 01:28 AM

Good luck!

_slavo_ 03.29.2010 01:41 AM

Thanks stu.

_slavo_ 04.15.2010 12:45 PM

I had another one earlier today. After so many successful ones, this one was the first one to be considered a slight failure. I can't really say why, I spent 4 hours on a train to reach the city of destination before me and my colleagues started off the presentation.
I'd felt quite at ease moments before but when it was my turn, my hands suddenly started shaking, my voice went all trembling ... just like in dark old days.
I can't really say why - my confidence regarding this matter has been rising steadily within last 3-4 months, having had so many successful attempts at giving a presentation.
And now this.
Maybe I just didn't have my day.

Rob Instigator 04.15.2010 01:35 PM

sux _slavo_
some days are better than others.
maybe it is the i celandic volcano? blame everything on the icelandic volcano

stu666 04.15.2010 01:56 PM

you should've posted here before!

chicka 04.15.2010 02:27 PM

Maybe it was the wait for your colleagues to finish their report. I found in my life I always did better when I went first. That way I didn't have time to think about what might go wrong or even forget things.

_slavo_ 04.16.2010 03:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stu666
you should've posted here before!


that's exaclty what I was thinking on a train on the way back. I'm a man of rituals and habits and it's never good to break them.

_slavo_ 04.16.2010 03:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chicka
Maybe it was the wait for your colleagues to finish their report. I found in my life I always did better when I went first. That way I didn't have time to think about what might go wrong or even forget things.


fair point. I had to wait about half an hour for my colleagues to finish. the bad think for me was that the dude before me is a real blast when it comes to presentations and i was saying to myself that I could never be as good as him.

phoenix 04.16.2010 03:46 AM

 

nicfit 04.16.2010 04:54 AM

 


now don't be sad, shit happens even to stars.
stars shit too.

_slavo_ 04.16.2010 05:29 AM

oh, you don't have to be all "don't cry" with me now :)

i'm fine, i'm just questioning myself what could have happened yesterday that I become so nervous all of a sudden.

_slavo_ 04.13.2011 02:33 AM

After quite a long time, there's another one waiting for me this afternoon. hopefully not too many people will be there, however i'm slightly out of practice, because it's been around a year that I went on giving presentations so please wish me luck.

Genteel Death 04.13.2011 02:53 AM

Good luck slavo. And good morning.

_slavo_ 04.13.2011 03:25 AM

Thanks Gabe, good morning to you too.

SONIC GAIL 04.13.2011 07:45 AM

best of luck slavo:) I am freaking about this deadline I am trying to finish. May have to bbring the PC home tonight cause they won't get me a damn laptop already. But on thte bright side I am still employed.

_slavo_ 04.13.2011 08:29 AM

Great success !!! The client was satisfied and he called me after I got back to the office that even the big boss was pleased to see this presentation.
I am REALLY HAPPY ABOUT THIS.

Spread the joy!!!

Gail, you're gonna make it, don't worry. Call your man to help you bring the big Žol PC home :)

SONIC GAIL 04.13.2011 08:38 AM

Congrats and yes he is carrying that shit for me. i hate bringing it home but it must be done<3

_slavo_ 04.13.2011 09:16 AM

The good man he is.

SONIC GAIL 04.13.2011 09:17 AM

he is indeed. sometimes i feel i don't deserve him.

_slavo_ 04.13.2011 09:37 AM

you do, cause you're cool as fuck

SONIC GAIL 04.13.2011 10:06 AM

thanx sweetie:) I just signed a notice stating that if my performance does not improve in a month I am fired:( quite a bit of pressure


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