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oh yeah and love or some shit, whatever

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Originally Posted by Dead-Air

I was so shooting for that. Nothing wrong with it at all. Sometimes the universe has other plans though.

Sure, if the right person comes along, that is cool. I just don't think being in love is the only way to feel happy. Not for me, anyway.

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Originally Posted by ni'k

i'm not fussed on sex, i can go without, i just need someone with accomodation somewhere away from here, preferably rent free.

Are you still thinking of moving to London?

yes. belfast wasn't great.

Been nearly with my girlfriend for 8 or so months now I think. She's away to Florida for 3 weeks right now though leaving me TERRIBLY LONELY! Oh well, my new 500gb hard drive will accompany me in these lonely nights.

Been in a relationship for over 3 years now.

i've been married for seven years...and so what?...sex is better every day!

i actually would like a boyfriend now, for well over a year i've been single and not interested in meeting anyone, not even thinking about it, but now that's changed. a guy asked me out on a proper date a while back which was weird. i met him for about 10 mins in a club and after he texted me wanting to take me to dinner. he was hot and seemed nice but he was a sports teacher and just seemed like he probably watched hollyoaks... maybe i'm being too harsh. another guy offered me £80 to spend the night in a hotel with him, he said it could become a regular thing and he'd pay me, i think i could have gotten him to go higher if i'd tried. he seemed honest and i beleived him when he said 'you wouldn't even have to do anything if you didn't want to and you'd still get paid' but no way was i taking that risk. after the narcissistic rush of flattery wore off i just felt kinda sorry for the dude and stupid for even considering it. because i'm only 21 i'm getting asked, but it would be sad to get to that guy's age and feel so alone that you wanted to pay guys to hang out with you in private so you could maintain your straight act in public. i hope by the time i'm his age i have people i've helped who might actually want me around. I'd much rather prefer friends and love to the straight man's dream of being able to buy rent boy's in private

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

i had a moment of happiness, after..dont remember how long, when i first entered the pavillion on friday evening and i knew i was having it and that it wouldnt last long, but i didnt mind and i dont care if im ruiniing it by saying, because happininess is just moments and life is worth it for those moments too.

you are right..but i believe that the major part of the job is within us, its us. if we want to be with someone, then sooner or later we are going to.
this is what i tried to say earlier in this thread.
in general, with people i know in real life too, if they are the type or if they are in a phase of their lives that they want to share it with someone, then i believe they gonna do it. because its known..when you are/feel like that, you are more open to people, more positive in getting into a relationship Ect.

I was actually just starting to get into the concept of being single though. But I chose badly for somebody to have a meaningless fling with. It got meaningful before we ever kissed when she blindfolded me and took me to her "secret beach" to photograph her in 10 degrees fahrenheit. It seems to be avalanching ever since, and I'm pleased to have misjudged her. Often when I'm wrong, things work out for the better.