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SpectralJulianIsNotDead 01.27.2008 03:09 PM

How long have you known your sexual preference?
 
I think I've known that I was heterosexual all my life. Sometimes I questioned it growing up. But it has always just seemed to make sense. My earliest sexual thought that I can remember was in 1st grade I imagined what this one girl would like naked. I considered her prettiest in my class. I wasn't the type of kid who had girlfriends when I was little though. I played with the boys because they shared my common interests (violence.)

Its odd though. My first best friend turned out to be gay. I was always sort of a reject. I thought he was cool, but I guess he was probably a reject too and that is why we were friends.

Danny Himself 01.27.2008 03:13 PM

I suppose I've always known I was straight too. I never really thought about it or doubted it, ever. Boys + Girls = Babies. That's the math behind it and thats just what made sense to me. Never looked at guys as anything but friends.

!@#$%! 01.27.2008 03:13 PM

since i was 3 i suppose, though i didn't have the concept of "heterosexual" in my mind for fucks sakes. that was my first heavy crush -- on a kindergarten girl in my class. she was so cute. i still remember her name (i'm not telling). the following year in preschool there was another girl--- brown hair, ponytail, a year older than me, way out of my league! but so lovely, i remember i liked looking at her legs a lot.

anyway, who gives a shit about my biography. fuck you all.

girlgun 01.27.2008 03:14 PM

i have been boy crazy for as long as i can remember. i had rockstar crushes really early.. like age 4 or 5? and even when i was 6... i'd walk by my crush's house, chase him on the playground to kiss him and even throw love notes in his desk.

so always.

screamingskull 01.27.2008 03:16 PM

Always been straight.

That being said, i wouldn't pass up on a relationship with a girl if i found myself being attracted to her, but that has never happened to me.

nicfit 01.27.2008 03:24 PM

I always liked girls.

Cantankerous 01.27.2008 03:25 PM

i guess since i was like 5

Glice 01.27.2008 03:30 PM

I think I lost my virginity before sexuality had dawned upon me... I was a horny bastard, but it wasn't directed towards girls per se. Sexuality is a different kettle of fish to affections, methinks, and I had objects of affections, but that wasn't ever on a gender basis so much as person-to-person.

SpectralJulianIsNotDead 01.27.2008 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
since i was 3 i suppose, though i didn't have the concept of "heterosexual" in my mind for fucks sakes. that was my first heavy crush -- on a kindergarten girl in my class. she was so cute. i still remember her name (i'm not telling). the following year in preschool there was another girl--- brown hair, ponytail, a year older than me, way out of my league! but so lovely, i remember i liked looking at her legs a lot.

anyway, who gives a shit about my biography. fuck you all.


I knew what gays were pretty early on. Because I was a big Queen fan and I was really sad when Freddy Mercury died. At first I thought he got AIDS from a woman, but someone was like "no he got it from a man."

And I was confused by how two men could have sex for years.

Also, when I was really little, one of my oldest sister had several friends who were openly gay. I just knew that meant he liked boys instead of girls and that it meant he acted a bit different too.

_slavo_ 01.27.2008 03:36 PM

I was like 12 or 13 when my female schoolmates started growing breasts and I knew THIS WAS IT.

krastian 01.27.2008 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SpectralJulianIsNotDead
I knew what gays were pretty early on.

That made me laugh for some reason.

SpectralJulianIsNotDead 01.27.2008 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by _slavo_
I was like 12 or 13 when my female schoolmates started growing breasts and I knew THIS WAS IT.


God that was a wonderful age. 7th grade. The first girl who had breasts had a locker right next to mine. I was in a daze a lot. But I had been sexually aroused by female parts for a few years before that. It was just that none of the girls my age had developed a female figure yet.

atsonicpark 01.27.2008 05:36 PM

I'm still confused a bit...

I mostly like chicks but I find that my best friend (a dude) is more attractive than my girlfriend is..

HaydenAsche 01.27.2008 06:48 PM

It was the first time I got a big load blown on my face.

Glice 01.27.2008 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
It was the first time I got a big load blown on my face.


It was lucky you realised you were gay at that point. Could've been a very awkward situation otherwise.

HaydenAsche 01.27.2008 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Glice
It was lucky you realised you were gay at that point. Could've been a very awkward situation otherwise.


Very true. I was a tad skeptical about his cock in my ass but after he came on my face, I knew I was in for the LONG haul.

m1rr0r dash 01.27.2008 07:24 PM

i remember having an argument with a classmate when i was around 13 about the questionable logic of claiming that getting a blowjob from a guy is any different than getting one from a chick. i was still a virgin, so this was all speculation of course. but i was saying that while a pussy is clearly different than an asshole, a mouth is a mouth.

!@#$%! 01.27.2008 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash
i remember having an argument with a classmate when i was around 13 about the questionable logic of claiming that getting a blowjob from a guy is any different than getting one from a chick. i was still a virgin, so this was all speculation of course. but i was saying that while a pussy is clearly different than an asshole, a mouth is a mouth.


THE SMELL. THE SMELL.

and the visuals. and the beard.

but if you enjoy the smell and the visuals and the body hair patterns of both genders then you have more choice and will never be bored. lucky.

me on the other hand i went to high school in a boys school and it was HELL. the motherfuckers stank and were ugly. to me i mean, men are ugly. can't stand men. but sweet sweet sweet girl smell, on the other hand--yummmmmeeeee.

--

well i dont "hate" men. i have male friends. they are just... unappetizing.

Silent Dan Speaks 01.27.2008 07:35 PM

Well, I've liked girls, and therefore been straight, as long as I can remember. Actually, in 1st-3rd grade or so, I played with way more girls than guys.

I never had any of that latency period bullshit.

m1rr0r dash 01.27.2008 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
IT'S THE SMELL!




 


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