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Disgruntled Youth 03.23.2006 12:51 PM

I need a girlfriend pt. II, + a life, a job, and stability
 
Life is a hectic thing & full of frustrations. Marleypumkin shit is tough all over. As for me my heart gets colder & colder without a womans touch. It's a shame in my case because I'm a picky fucker. Having a girlfriend is expensive so I've been looking for work to take a girl out, pay rent, & hang out with the one friend I have in Ky. I have a strong feeling I won't find what I want here in Ky but through out my search in life I will find these things. Stability as a matter of fact is something I've longed for, for a while already. A stable job, girl, & home are things I want yet, I find myself now looking to stay in Ky for 4 months then to head out to Ny or Wisconsin. I don't know where I'm going or what's in store for me in the future. I try not and stress it cause it's all apart of life's journey & eventually we all die but, I'm definately going to make it the best stay. So if you find yourself in a predicament of a one night stand take advantage because that's the only form of loving you can get plus use protection. Not that I advocate one night stands but they sure help when you're getting none. Other than that I want to ride my skateboard & go mountain bicking. Smile cause if shit is as worse as it can get just remember shit can only get better, or you can put yourself in the shoes of a kid in a third world country and ask yourself who has it worse.:cool:

Inhuman 03.23.2006 12:54 PM

I have nothing to say but good point! There's no point in people bathing in their own misery when they don't have it that bad. Everything comes and goes in life, and I'm sure that it will balance out eventually.

screamingskull 03.23.2006 12:55 PM

if you feel that disconnected then you need change. i do think maybe moving is a good idea, and getting a new job, something you really think you will be happy doing, and if you want a girlfriend that badly then just stop being so picky, try going on a date with someone you dont think you have much in common with you might find she's actually really great.

RockerNino 03.23.2006 12:56 PM

I know how u feel.

Disgruntled Youth 03.23.2006 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by screamingskull
if you feel that disconnected then you need change. i do think maybe moving is a good idea, and getting a new job, something you really think you will be happy doing, and if you want a girlfriend that badly then just stop being so picky, try going on a date with someone you dont think you have much in common with you might find she's actually really great.


I guess that's why I'm in Ky. I trying to find useful pourpose in my dry and dull life. I'll try & go out with a girl I don't have much in commom with. I just find myself like Christian Slater's character in Pump up the Volume. I have a hard time talking to new people specially in this new environment. Plus I think their is no one like me in Ky.

hebbel 03.23.2006 02:17 PM

kentucky is nice... we stayed a couple of days in lexington while taking this little trip all over the states...


people were extremely nice :o ...



which part of kentucky are you in?

HaydenAsche 03.23.2006 05:02 PM

I need a fucking cigarette.

sellouteater 03.23.2006 05:05 PM

i need a girl freind any hot girls out there

Disgruntled Youth 03.24.2006 05:24 PM

Dude I'm in Berea. Their are some cute girl but not like in Miami. It's all good though I'm a patient man & all will pay off soon.

truncated 03.24.2006 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Disgruntled Youth
Life is a hectic thing & full of frustrations. Marleypumkin shit is tough all over. As for me my heart gets colder & colder without a womans touch. It's a shame in my case because I'm a picky fucker. Having a girlfriend is expensive so I've been looking for work to take a girl out, pay rent, & hang out with the one friend I have in Ky. I have a strong feeling I won't find what I want here in Ky but through out my search in life I will find these things. Stability as a matter of fact is something I've longed for, for a while already. A stable job, girl, & home are things I want yet, I find myself now looking to stay in Ky for 4 months then to head out to Ny or Wisconsin. I don't know where I'm going or what's in store for me in the future. I try not and stress it cause it's all apart of life's journey & eventually we all die but, I'm definately going to make it the best stay. So if you find yourself in a predicament of a one night stand take advantage because that's the only form of loving you can get plus use protection. Not that I advocate one night stands but they sure help when you're getting none. Other than that I want to ride my skateboard & go mountain bicking. Smile cause if shit is as worse as it can get just remember shit can only get better, or you can put yourself in the shoes of a kid in a third world country and ask yourself who has it worse.:cool:


1. Why is having a girlfriend expensive? Why are you footing the bill for everything? We're in the 21st century, split it down the middle. If some chick is making you pay for the whole deal, I say, dump that gold-diggin' ho.

2. If you're searching for your purpose in life, and profound meaning, and you're a picky fucker as you say, in my humble opinion, spunking into some random cooch ain't gonna help. It's a quick fix if you're really hard up for it, but jerk one off and save yourself the STD. How are you going to find yourself a worthwhile girlfriend if you're spending your time laying bar pussy?

You seem like you're going through a rough time of it, and yes, strange situations can be disconcerting. But you'll adjust eventually, and if you don't, you'll move on. Nothing is irrepairable. But don't let your concern drive you to do foolish things.

I sound like a fuckin' nun or something. All I'm saying is, that kind of behavior puts you in the same category as all the rest of those mindless, instinct-driven assholes. You've got a brain, use it.

Hip Priest 03.24.2006 06:40 PM

...I sound like a fuckin' nun...

Not quite like a nun, if I may say so.

truncated 03.24.2006 06:41 PM

I'm trying to modernize the sect. Communicate universally.

Sheriff Rhys Chatham 03.24.2006 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Disgruntled Youth
Life is a hectic thing & full of frustrations. Marleypumkin shit is tough all over. As for me my heart gets colder & colder without a womans touch. It's a shame in my case because I'm a picky fucker. Having a girlfriend is expensive so I've been looking for work to take a girl out, pay rent, & hang out with the one friend I have in Ky. I have a strong feeling I won't find what I want here in Ky but through out my search in life I will find these things. ........:cool:


i here ya!

Everyneurotic 03.24.2006 07:59 PM

i'm in such a fucked up transitional period it's crazy...

i hear ya on the girlfriend stuff, yeah, i do feel like that but i'm sick of it, now i'm going to stop searching for one and stop trying to make moves or talk play or whatever, if a girl likes me, fine, if they don't, what am i to do? i also have a new rule, once a girl tells me she has a boyfriend it's "so long loser"

i'm so not into dating and having a relationship with someone, i need to connect again, just with real people, i'm sick of phonies. in the last couple of days, i learned to see right thru to persons i considered dear to me...and i'm still confused as fuck

disgruntled: it seems to me like you really need to get to the core of the problems instead of finding cheap fast solutions. get to know what you really want and not persuade something you think you want. get to the core, get to know you and what you need and go for it. having a girlfriend is nice and all, but it's not a goal or an end, a girlfriend (a really one, not a quick fuck) should be with you to be with you and to help each other out to makie both of your live's better. it's not like having a girlfriend will solve your problems; in fact, i'm too sure that if you get a girlfriend and you still have this unresolved feelings about your life, chences are that relationship will be hell for both of you.

yeah, we have problems and life sucks, but there's awesome music and fun times awaiting us, so hang in there for the fun times.

guitarpro 03.25.2006 12:15 AM

Good luck with all of that

Disgruntled Youth 03.25.2006 01:34 PM

I went to a college party last night I started talking to a girl thought I started a good conversation till she walked away to her friend without saying excuse me or anything so I walked the fuck away cause I figure I bored her or I just felt like I didn't even fit in the party. I have a hard time talking to people & I was playing off like I was really wasted cause I didn't really know anyone & I just have a hard time talking with strangers. Normaly I provide the party by bartending. I probably didn't give the crowd much of a chance but then again I didn't feel to embraced by them either. I guess that's what you deal with when you're new in town.

Trasher02 03.25.2006 01:37 PM

i've said it once and i'll say it again
love is a beaaaaaaaaatch

Disgruntled Youth 03.25.2006 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by truncated
1. Why is having a girlfriend expensive? Why are you footing the bill for everything? We're in the 21st century, split it down the middle. If some chick is making you pay for the whole deal, I say, dump that gold-diggin' ho.

2. If you're searching for your purpose in life, and profound meaning, and you're a picky fucker as you say, in my humble opinion, spunking into some random cooch ain't gonna help. It's a quick fix if you're really hard up for it, but jerk one off and save yourself the STD. How are you going to find yourself a worthwhile girlfriend if you're spending your time laying bar pussy?

You seem like you're going through a rough time of it, and yes, strange situations can be disconcerting. But you'll adjust eventually, and if you don't, you'll move on. Nothing is irrepairable. But don't let your concern drive you to do foolish things.

I sound like a fuckin' nun or something. All I'm saying is, that kind of behavior puts you in the same category as all the rest of those mindless, instinct-driven assholes. You've got a brain, use it.


1.) As a man I want to be able to provide and have something in life going on beside using starving artist as opposed to saying unemployed.

2.) I always use protection. It's not like I'm a poon hound on the hunt but if you go a year with out any you'll go nuts. Jerking off isn't as good as the real thing I wish it was, I wouldn't be so stressed. Nothing better than the scent of a woman her hair, soft skin & curved features.

I won't do foolish things because I think I'm to smart for that & I can't stand people who are mindless and drive by their instincs it's just fucking crazy when you sometimes feel alone in this world.


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