Unrequited Love
 

. Discuss it with me.

So does any love. Go celibate, like me.

i was thinking about this earlier.. if there were two of you.. like identical mentally and physically.. whould you do sexual stuff with yrself??!?
i would!!!

I don't know.

Goo- I have been thinking about this. It'd be so much easier.

id fuck both yall



thats creppy

uhhh


awkward

but yeah id not bang myself..id give myself head!

weirdness

It really is. I'm just never having sex.

PS..
i just read who replied.. nevermind
im not a FAGGOT

durp
dont be celibate yall.. we need people with good taste to reproduce!

True. But I'm a fag so it doesn't matter.

lol, um, thanks..

welcome to the club!!!

is your laminated id as cool as mine? i was kinda let down by the reglamentary hat, though

yeah, it sucks. and yeah, i'm a tip toe step to going celibate too...actually, i'm a tip toe step away from going officially celibate. i'm celibate already

Speaking of celibacy;
I have been this for 5 years now.

No schizo, I am dumb.

Are you homophobic?

On a more serious note, in response to your predicament, and despite the fact that I'm probably saying the same thing everyone else has told you, I'm going to go ahead and say that you just straight up tell him.

My sophomore year of college, I had a huge thing for a girl, there was something metaphysical about it, how the whole thing worked eldues me to this day, but anyway I told her and she said "no, thanks" and that was that. Well, actually, I was more miserable than before, but I got over it quickly.

Do it face to face though. IM or email or phone is a mistake.

Just take him down to the corner and buy him a soda pop:D

Ok Schizo, of course we need all the juicy details in order to throw our two cents in. So, go on, spill it!

well, from the vague post i say do what noumenal said to do. it's the best thing to do.

Quite right.

If you fail to act, you rule out the chance of a successful resolution. If you dare to act, you give yourself that chance.

Ahh, love to all of you.

no
its a secret joke of myself and hadenasche

my thoughts on the subject:

unrequited love is a bitch if you're a man, but you gotta learn to be a man & live with it & have some dignity & self-respect & move on.

if you're a woman, i have no clue of how it feels, but please don't become "psycho stalker girlfriend" :D

Trust me there is plenty to lose. I speak from experience on this matter.
After my girlfriend dumped me for my best friend, I tried asking a girl who I'd been friends w/ a long time to start a relationship. She teased me, of course, & then just gave me the calssic, you're not my type bull-shit. & ever since that moment, I've lost everything. My friends just up & decided I wasn't their friend anymore (all of them). & of course I lost the friendship w/ the girl that I wanted to be w/. So, take it from someone who knows.
I just really wish I had a love in my life. I miss that feeling of waking in someone's arms & having them say I love you, & I'll always be w/ you.
Which that is a terrible lie to say to someone.
I'm just really hurting emotionally in my life for the same reasons you are talking about.
& I've tried everything I know how to meet women & get into a friendship, or a relationship w/ them. But all they ever end up doing is rejecting me.

i was friends with my girlfriend for a while before i asked her out and now we've been going out for almost two years. being friends made it easier to ask, but like you said there's not much to lose. so you have an awkward moment if he says no. you'll both get over it. but if he says yes, you'll be ecstatic. wish you luck...;)

I have to dis agree w/ you 100% soniknirve. The exact opposite thing happened to me, & now I'm lonely & miserable.

I was in love just with my first gf, well obviously it was a cubic bummer and it struck my heart.it was many years ago, though.
now I consider Venus a planet where I have to be careful cause it's in a fucking strange position in my portrait.