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ZEROpumpkins

01.27.2008 07:39 PM

How long have your parents known your sexual preference?

And how long after you knew yours did you tell them?

sonicl

01.28.2008 04:11 AM

I've never told my parents that I'm a heterosexual.

ZEROpumpkins

01.28.2008 05:34 AM

How were they jerky? Did they make fun of you or something?

cryptowonderdruginvogue

01.28.2008 05:53 AM

are you trying to come out or what?

ZEROpumpkins

01.28.2008 06:18 AM

lol no. I was just wondering about some peoples stories.

ZEROpumpkins

01.28.2008 07:37 AM

Interesting story. Sorry to hear about your brother though.

atsonicpark

01.28.2008 07:57 AM

I've been with the same girl for 5 years and my mom still suspects I'm gay...

And she's kinda right cuz I KINDA am..

ZEROpumpkins

01.28.2008 08:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swa(y)

well, it was HIS brother, which woulda been my step uncle. i never met him. he seems like he woulda been a pretty interesting guy though.

AIDS is some serious shit.

i always think ist kinda strange/funny though when straight people act as if one eof thier main concern with homosexuality is the spreading of AIDS. its never really made any sense to me. im willing to bet there are more straight people with aids out there. course, i never looked up the stats, but, i gotta pretty good hunch.

course, half of these people that say such ignorent shit will try and back it up with crap like "well, yr more likely to get AIDS from butt sex because of the possible tearing/bleeding"....and to that i say...1) PLENTY of straght people are haveing straight butt sex. and 2) there can also be tearing/bleeding during vaginal intercourse. i know both of these to be fact.

iguess the safest sex is had by lesbian couples/partners/"friends"/whatever/idontcare/imdelierious i really need to sleep.

haha

Oh sorry, I misread it. It's 12am here.

ZEROpumpkins

01.28.2008 08:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I've been with the same girl for 5 years and my mom still suspects I'm gay...

And she's kinda right cuz I KINDA am..

Is this the lady who shoved her finger up your ass? Because I think half the board are still waiting for pics of her.

HaydenAsche

01.28.2008 11:20 AM

They knew as soon as they first saw a big load blown on my face.

HaydenAsche

01.28.2008 11:26 AM

Well, I've made some videos I'm not terribly proud of...

contrelefuckingsexisme

01.28.2008 11:30 AM

well, my father doesn't really care about it but my mom suspected i was gay because i've never been with any guy
which made me really sad
because when you have a couple of persons (your mom included) presuming you are gay because you've never had the balls to go out with someone, you usually end up confused and ask yourself if they must be right.
it sucks.

contrelefuckingsexisme

01.28.2008 11:36 AM

i forgot to say, that actually changed when some weeks ago i talked about it with her and she now knows i'm looking for a decent man.
i don't think it's any encouraging to have your mother thinking that kind of thing when you haven't been with anybody and you have had 2 or 3 nasty evil persons joking about it....

screamingskull

01.28.2008 11:36 AM

i have been there contre, my mum thought that i might be gay for a while. I am not, but it was irritating that she just presumed that because i had not had a long-term relationship.

contrelefuckingsexisme

01.28.2008 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by screamingskull

i have been there contre, my mum thought that i might be gay for a while. I am not, but it was irritating that she just presumed that because i had not had a long-term relationship.

it's irritating and sad, too.

SpectralJulianIsNotDead

01.28.2008 12:26 PM

I don't know how long they've known. I remember after liking girls for awhile I admitted to it and getting made fun of by my little siblings who were still in the cooties phase.

sarramkrop

01.28.2008 12:28 PM

15 or 16, can't remember.

✌➬	01.28.2008 02:27 PM

They still don't know. That may change by summer.

contrelefuckingsexisme

01.28.2008 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ✌➬

They still don't know. That may change by summer.

hahaha

luxinterior

01.28.2008 06:57 PM

My brothers joke that I'm gay.

I've never talked about anything with my parents.

flophousefloozie

01.28.2008 08:39 PM

I think i should tell my mom I'm gay. For kicks.

Danny Himself

01.29.2008 06:38 AM

My sister openly asked me over a game of one-on-one Monopoly if I was gay, probably because all my friends seem to be girls and gay guys. I know, stereotyping, but I know it must look somewhat ..queer. Needless to say, I am not, I just don't actively pursue a relationship or girls to go out with. They come to me. I suppose it's because I never talk to my family about whats going on in my 'love' life they suspect stuff.

Silly, really.

So to answer your question, my parents do not know my sexual preference.

_slavo_

01.29.2008 06:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kegmama

you're not gay just becuz you like your gf to stick her finger up your ass.
its scissorshock that makes you gay. ;)

pwned !

batreleaser

01.29.2008 09:19 AM

i duno, i live in a tiny ass closed minded town so when i was not into sports and was into music, art, etc.. my parents prolly had their suspicions, especially cuz i wasnt getting laid. then i started sleeping with girls, and now they dont have suspicions. i think its generallly pretty normal to go through through that confused 15-17 age,

Alex's Trip

01.29.2008 09:35 AM

I told them March 9, 2007. I haven't told my little sister, and I'm not sure how to do it.

HaydenAsche

01.29.2008 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

I told them March 9, 2007. I haven't told my little sister, and I'm not sure how to do it.

My little siblings just found out. I never told my sister but she's known since she was like 7 or so.

ZEROpumpkins

01.30.2008 01:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

I told them March 9, 2007. I haven't told my little sister, and I'm not sure how to do it.

How old is she?

Dead-Air

01.30.2008 02:22 AM

When I was 23 and at last had a girlfriend, who wound up being my first wife, I think my parents figured out I had been shy and not gay the whole time before after all.

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